Search Results: how to make her comfortable around me

Men, what quality/character/action in a woman finally makes you feel comfortable to be sensitive, cuddly, and seeking romantic gestures around her?

Society for the longest time has been oppressing men and boys to act "manly", resulting in men having a very hard time being open with their thoughts and feelings, emotional, speaking up when they need nurture and/or...

JudgeFreeZone

Xper 4 Age: 29

Confidence ruined after girl ghosted me?

I was dating a girl for a couple months and we talked on the phone every 3 or 4 days during that period of time for an hour a so each phone call plus 4 or 5 dates. Then one night she stayed over and we made out and...

red324

Guru Age: 37

Why would a straight female feel closer to women than to men despite wanting to have a close relationship with a man?

I’ve always got along better with women than men. I’m a straight, 23 year old female. I’m single and usually feel like I don’t get that “connection” that I need in order to feel comfortable around a man. I have once, with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, do you burp loudly around your friends? Guys, do you find it gross when a girl burps around you?

I just me this awesome girl and after hanging out for the 2nd time I have discovered she does massively huge, loud and deep burps A LOT. I have absolutely no problem with this, but find it interesting as I have never met...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Men: A Really Easy Way To Figure Out When To Make A Move

A lot of guys seem to be talking about how they fucked up with a girl because they were too afraid to make a move, in particular going for the first kiss, because they weren’t sure whether or not she’d want to. Many will...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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If a guy was likes a girl would he admit embarrassing things?

I can usually tell if a guy is interested. Something about my coworker makes it seem like he sometimes might be interested. I feel like he always is interested in what I have to say. We see each other in the breakroom and...

oxoxo-lover

Xper 7 Age: 29

When a guy always jokes and teases you, is that a sign he's into you?

Short backstory: - we are both mid twenties - we work together - have known each other for over a year - we have slept together multiple times - he always jokes around at work and makes me laugh - we crack up...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I'm in love with a younger and beautiful woman- just found out she suffers from depression, she doesn't see her worth? how can I help her?

We started by exchanging music, and talking about sad songs. Then she indirectly hinted that she suffers from depression (which I can somehow see from her very extremely "shy" nature). She seems to be the sweetest and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Is it wrong for a man to be a gynecologist?

So here’s my answer: Look, honestly… a medical student does not decide to study gynecology because he/she wants to peer and poke around women’s nether regions. For at least two reasons: Firstly, because they find...

yuviii2012

Xper 6 Age: 27

Is it weird to go to someone’s house on the first date?

I have a date this coming weekend, and the guy (a longtime friend) wants to go out for dinner and walk around town but unfortunately it’s supposed to be extremely cold. I thought about maybe after getting dinner inviting...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it okay to ask people to spend more time with you? What is considered an acceptable level of neediness?

I have a lot of popular family members who I spend time with but I don’t have many people who I can just chill with. I have been kind of struggling with some feelings of isolation. I didn’t want to be considered to be...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fashion & Beauty

Are you surprised the more followers influencers or celebs get the more narcissistic they become?

There was one most followed ‘influencer’ in my country let’s call her N. She became well known at the age of around 11 or 13 due to her blog. She starts to become a narcissist when she’s only 17, she’s more narcissistic...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I feel guilty?

Okay so I’ve been dating this guy for about 4 years and I love him. I met a guy at my cousins house like a year ago and I didn’t think anything of him honestly but he’s verrrryy attractive to me. I told my boyfriend one...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

I couldn’t have sex with my boyfriend? What’s wrong with me?

I’m an 18 year old girl, senior in high school. For the past two and a half months, I’ve been going out with this 20 year old guy who I met at my job at the mall. He’s really chill and I was pretty attracted to him when...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My guy friend is nervous around me, what can I do to make him feel less nervous?

I have never seen him this nervous around anyone except me, and he just recently started to become nervous. How do I make him feel more comfortable? Not that his nervousness bothers me, I think it’s absolutely adorable,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Like is there a problem with me protecting myself and keeping my sanity safe?

So, I'm going to get straight to my point, and try to make this, as short as possible. But, I noticed the different relationships and connections that I have had with particular people. I have had people tell me, that I...

Erica686

Xper 5 Age: 34