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Girls, What really frustrates me is this concept of racial fetishism. Why is finding your own race generally most appealing fine but not another?

I hear things like its racial fetishism and dehumanizing to prefer to date someone of another race. Dehumanizing? The human species is a sexual based species. There is nothing more human than feeling sexual desire for...
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Relationship help! Do I stay or leave? Am I being crazy?

Wow I actually think I’m going crazy. I am 23 years old. I’m being either dramatic or actually this is normal. I've never had a boyfriend up until 2 years ago. When I was younger, I could never keep a guy. There...
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How different are love and lust really?

As humans we all have our interests and our cravings, We tend to take our benefit to consideration in almost every situation. So if Lust is mostly just out of benefit like when you love a person for making you feel...
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Just friends right?

So I met this boy in 8th grade and we were cool like friends then he said he loved me but I think maybe it was just lust. Anyways we haven't talked much since 8th grade so skip to 11th grade and I'm in a group chat with...
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Love, Lust, Fantasy or Obsession?

Been a minute since I've been back here. So, to start off with this female is married has been for 4 years but been dating him for almost 9 and I myself have a girlfriend of 5 years. This married female an I are bother in...
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Guys, Do you think he is a player/it is a red flag if a guy I'm dating does not ask personal questions much but rather asks about my sexual attitudes?

He says love and lust should be in equal proportions for him and he enjoys having good sex with his partner. But we are in a sort of a dating stage (living in different countries at the same time) and he visited me...
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Why do guys cheat? Are they actually capable of love or just Lust?

My boyfriend cheated in me in the beggining weve moved forward from that thibgs got ugly so i had dumped him now were back together and he's on some app texting sone females but thinks im stupid he says he loves me and...
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Are you confused between lust and love?

I think people are. They are getting into sexual relationships and breaking up in no time. It's like a very small cycle of sexual relationship with a friend who you agree to lie to on a regular basis, saying "I love you"...
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Men cheat for sexual variety, women cheat for emotional variety

When a man cheats, chances are he just wants to get his rocks off with a sexy/ alluring/ hot girl who he sees as sufficiently varied from his girlfriend. Say his girlfriend has brunette hair and a tomboy look. So he might...
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Does she really have feelings for me, or is she just using me emotionaly?

I was introduced to this girl, who I fell for almost immediately. But I kept my feelings to myself because I found out she was married with kids (my usual dating rules are not married, and no kids unless in certain...
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Love does not exist! Anyone else?

I came to the conclusion, that love is not real. It does not exist. No such a thing as love or a loving girlfriend . It's a fairy tale told us to provide us with the comfort of having peace of mind and endless hope and...
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Better to be a man or woman in 2019?

I pick woman (a pretty one though) things I love about being a man: The kind of dominance / feeling of control standing really tall / feeling of power A lot of ambition and determination to really succeed...
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Is it not normal? or just different culture?

I met a korean guy (but not living in his homeland now. He is a foreigner in my country). We had coffee while chitchat, lunch together then we went to his place cause he want to show his books and watch movie. We sat at...
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Common but normal or common but not normal?

I met a korean guy (but not living in his homeland now. He is a foreigner in my country). We had coffee while chitchat, lunch together then we went to his place cause he want to show his books and watch movie. We sat at...
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"I Love You", what does it mean when a guy says it first?

I (23) had met someone via a dating app, not tinder, (22) and had only been talking to him for a week or so before our first date. The date was only supposed to be for coffee, he was shaking like a leaf with nerves so I...
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What's the point of love?

So I read that love was actually just a chemical reaction in your brain. Love is just another reproduction mechanism and not actuall love I always thought that love was when 2 people just connected on a deep spiritual...
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Making love or no attachments lusting?

How you know when a guy wants to make love or just wants to fuck? What's the difference?
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When a guy’s words don’t match his actions but you still are interested, what do you do?

Let’s say he tells you he wants to do this and that to you, likes you, wanna make love to you, doesn’t have any hoes etc. yet he takes 20 hours to respond to your texts, lusts after other women on instagram, and overall...
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