What's the difference between love and lust?

[ztriple3]

I don't see anyone saying what I feel, so here goes. Lust is where you want to be with the person. There's some kind of barrier between you, but you want them. Sometimes more than anything else in the world, and it can really feel like love. Or you can be telling yourself it is because you want it to work. But something's off.
Love? This is practically conjecture as it's based on hopes, secondhand information, and... I don't even know what, but I think I'm right. Love is where the person makes you feel like there's another being that wants the best for you, and you want the same for them. Love is knowing who a person is at their core, wholly appreciating them, and trusting them enough to be nothing but excited to see who they grow into next. Love is where you would see them hurt you, or be with another, or would give up anything of yourself, just to see them happy, and know they'll never make you. Love doesn't hold back. Love doesn't demand conditions. Love asks for understanding, and gives it. Love has patience, and gives it. Love is Truly having someone and giving yourself to them, and growing into something bigger together.

[Browneye57]

Everyone knows what lust is.
Love has many varying levels and types - for example many men never come to the realization that their woman will NEVER love them like their mother did, and waste some or all of their life hoping and pining they can find one that will. Ain't never happening - romantic love and maternal love are very different.
For most people, love happens when the NRE wears off - new relationship energy or emotion. When the dust settles the relationship should mature into something deeper and more meaningful, or it simply fails.
And really, love is about GIVING, not what you'll GET. Too many are really confused about that as well. Family, marriage, children, is about being in a place in your life where you have SO MUCH life force you're ready to GIVE. To love and nurture. It's not about what kind of benefits you'll get out of it - that's a losing proposition.

[LuvAsh]

This is so obvious. Most people won't die for those they are just lusting after. Lust doesn't last and you are never content with lust and that is why cheating exsits. But people will die for someone they truly love. If someone loves you then they will feel like they don't need anyone else and they are fine with just you. In other words, they are content. Love lasts forever and if you were in a relationship with someone you loved, you probably don't love them romantically, but you probably still love them as a person and still want the best for them.

[PrincessGrail]

Lust is sexual. Love is romantic. Ideally they go together.

[OlderAndWiser]

If I am motivated solely by lust, I am thinking of my physical pleasure in the moment and not thinking about any long term consequences for us as a couple. If I am making love, I am thinking about her pleasure as well as my own and I said trying to connect with her emotionally as well as sexually.

[ghostqueen]

One is physical infatuation and the other is emotionally driven.

[AmandaYVR]

The amount of knowing the person?

[JKingOff]

You got the f****** meme up and I don't understand why you're asking... It's pretty simple, lust is the physical attraction, love is the emotional connection. Lust comes first. sorry ladies but you got to get your foot in the door, looks are important but they are not the end-all be-all. Once you actually got the guy where you want them now it's time to turn on your charm, AKA personality. if you don't have any then guess what your foot in the door just turned into a one night stand he's gone the next day. Hope this answers the question for you.

[Grond21]

lust originally meant a disordered sexual desire where you view the other person as an object. Recently, it has been degraded to you only mean sexual desire. Which is a shame, because the more you can distinguish truce with your words the more you can understand reality.

Love on the other hand, is desiring the good of the other person, for their own sake.

So using the original definition of lust, it was only about selfish desires and satisfying those. But love is the opposite, because it's all about the other person.
Using the new colloquial definition of lust, is clear that it is only biological interest. But love is far deeper and far more lasting

[jadelaid]

Love is long time commitment etc
And lust is ok.
But greed and materialistic plastic fakes
Sometimes. but anyway. From my past history I don't think in real life u or me would like each other because I don't have irl or online anyone that can be consistent in knowing things and saying what they know then following it through. Etc.
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[NightFlirt]

Think of yourself and your SO living together only having sex once a month, but quite happy together laughing, talking and having fun. This is LOVE. If you fell like you have to have sex every day or the relationship is doomed to die a horrible death, You don't love them it's LUST plain and simple,

[HereIbe]

She went out drinking with her girls and comes home. You clean her up (as in give her a shower), put a nightgown on her, send her to bed, clean up the bathroom, including toilet, sink, floor, walls. She gets up in the middle of it to cry on you and beg forgiveness for how "mean" she's been and how she never appreciates you (amazing how a night of her listening to her female friends bitch about men readjusts her attitudes for me), you send her back to bed. You get back to the bathroom. She gets up again. You send her back. Bathroom's clean. You get into bed and make sure you have earplugs, because she's snoring like ten boxer dogs. You only care that now she's safe and un-harmed.

[sage969]

To Love you must know the person so well and know for sure that you do, not think that you do, you should understand, accept, appreciate all what you are inside out, you'd fight the world for the person you love, sacrifice, be nice, be modest, be honest, and most important is trust, nothing would be able to break you apart if you truly love each other, you'll always find a way together, lust is a physical attraction and satisfaction that you get because you are physically close to the person or feeling, imaging that you are

[bbyboi]

Lust is within love but lines cross when those are two for instant you have lust towards one that you love but when it becomes nothing there but sexual encounters tis all there is there now if you "make love" to said person you one time or maby two times a day it is a different story you love that person and are not there for sex says she refuses and you just respond with an ok and hold her now trying to turn her wits on not only technically rape but it also shoves a gab between you two and those couple will than start to drift into the lust angle

[Anonymous]

From an 'occult' perspective: lust is purely carnal and it's also objectifying, in the sense that it drives you to use the other person to satisfy animalistic sexual impulses. Lust is purely hedonistic and even transgressive. That's why it's one of the seven deadly sins.

Love is an untainted feeling and needs to be cultivated. In ancient cultures, it was done by trying to keep the mind and emotions 'clean'. In a nutshell, love is not animalistic. It's sacred. Consequently, sex needs to be treated the same way.

[Lliam]

They are completely different things. Lust, or rather, wild mad sex, is absolutely fantascic. And it's wonderful when it exists within a loving relationship. But love is much, much deeper. Love is when you know all of a persons quirks, annoying habits, faults, and frailties and you love them more than ever. Love requires total trust and commitment. Love grows. Lust is more like infatuation that almost inevitably fades over a period of a few months.

[markscott]

Love is driven by the desire to do what is best for the other person. Lust is driven by the desire to get in her pants, or to fill some emotional need of your own, at her expense. Love likes to see the other person succeed, to do well, and to have her reasonable needs and wants met. Lust likes to take control, to have the person.

[Anonymous]

For me personally, feelings develop over time and eventually love starts to grow, but only when I know them on a deeper level.

Lust is superficial. I can lust after a guy and feel a longing for him even though I don't know him very well.

[needhelp777]

Love is when u truly love someone and u will never give up on that person and u will do all what it takes to keep a relationship with that person

Lust is when u don't want a relationship. And u just want sex or it is when u want a relationship just for that person body

[ShadowofRegret]

Love is selfless, while lust is selfish.

When you love someone, you care about them in a selfless way and are willing to sacrifice for that person.

While with lust, it is a selfish desire to sleep with that person without any real care for them as a person.

[Stoner710]

Lust is when someone doesn’t know someone and wants to fuck them.

Love is when a relationship develops between two people over a short or long period of time and (hopefully) never be apart. There is also the benefits of sex but there the difference.

Girls what do you think?

[SixFootSexy]

This is a woman's opinion on what love is. The American ideal for a woman is she could be a 300lbs gorilla, not shave her legs or practice any maintenance she doesn't want to do and somehow land a hunky/rich/vampire/bad boy in her bed and be solely committed to her.

Chipotle in bed is love though. If she doesn't share, kick her out and get you a partner that will.

[jojouzumaki]

Love is when you learn how to respect, trust and forgive him not because he is your partner neither because he earns it... simply because he exist. both of your intention is to build something wonderful that grows each day.

Lust is temporary in which the person don't grow since he/she only want something temporary.

[Anonymous]

Lust is superficial. A lot of people confuse the two especially since it's easy to get infatuated with someone you lust after but infatuation also isn't love. It's the same as having a crush on someone and you can have a crush on someone you barely know, however you cannot love someone unless you know them pretty deeply and have seen all sides of them and you still think they're the most amazing person AND you still feel lust for them.

[Xyline789]

Lust is only sexual attraction and many can't see past it to realize it's not love. In a relationship, there should be sexual attraction so it gets confused for love. Love is when you would give your life for them if given the choice and be happy to do it.

[robertKugler]

Lust is party sex.. love is slightly more personal think of it like a tree main trunk is man and woman but the branch is secondary love for ones family.. other branches relatives close friends partners then love for pets and all encompassing love our world as a whole..

[Moonchild714]

Lust is phsyical sex driven and Love is emotionally driven. With love you want more and put up with more. With lust once you've had enough sex you're done no longer need the BS that comes with that person...

[Skelmir_Nathair]

Lust demands things from others.

Love does not. Love is, no matter what another person does. No matter what pain someone causes. Or even if you have to take harmful action against them. If you truly love someone. You love them no matter what.

[JackareJack]

For men: lust is anything that leaves you feeling disgusted after cumming to.

Love is anything that you would feel disgusted for cumming to and not going for breakfast after.

[cadehendry]

Lust and love are two different goals lust the goal is to convice you for e. g the most commom one is sex lust is using whatever it can to get what it wants love is to make the other persin happy loves goal is to make sure the other persom gets what he or she wants

[SergeantSmoke]

Actually, your pics send the message perfectly! Lust is focusing on the outside, finding areas that are pleasing to your own eyes. Whereas, Love is to the heart, personality, actions, the desire to satisfy, and not to take.

[lightbulb27]

I think Lust is a drive to be inside the other, love is emotional sense of having connection, well being and security making one open, vulnerable to and wanting to give.

[englisc]

Love is basically where you care for someone as a person, and you feel an emotional connection with them. Lust is where you just feel strong sexual attraction.

[R_Cakes91]

If it’s love, the person will probably still around longer. If it’s lust, they will kick it after the attraction is dwindling. Hence, the reason for so many divorces.

[MajesticTwelve]

Pretty much the picture says it all.
If you love them, you want them to stick around after sex, if you just lust after them... you're good with them leaving.

[GhettoGirl]

"Love"- imprisons the mind, encapsulates the heart and is detrimentally afflicting to the soul and puts the course of ones life in the fragile hands of another mere human.

"Lust"- is exciting and sweaty wild, leaves one in breathless embrace but when your done you can simply wash those sheets.

[ImagineSketchy]

Love is a chemical process that compels a being to want to breed. Lust is more for the act rather than what follows it.

Love is more long term and actually caring about someone rather than just liking them for their body or the short term.

[bimmy5000]

Lust is temporary, a drive to settle a fixated urge. Love on the other hand is lasting. Maybe not infinite in some cases but certainly ongoing, either for a person or a passion, despite the flaws that come with it.

[VikingWarLord]

Typically about 6 months, max 1 year.

Then you'll see how much 'love' was really there.

Romantic love is a biological trick to get you to propagate more progeny. This is why there are so many divorces and infidelity. You are a polyamorous creature by DEFAULT. But you've never been taught that, so you'll continue jumping from one relationship or marriage to the next, thinking you've not found the ONE (when there will never be just ONE perfect mate for you).

[Thatsamazing]

Not much other than that the notion of love is really idiotic in some people's minds. They have an over-inflated concept of what it should be and that "casual sex," whatever the hell that means, is a problem or something.

[antonio1970]

It's a big big difference. Lust u just want to fuck living shit out of her like an animal. and love u want to be tender and show her how she's appreciated.. and treat her like she's worth the world to u. other is just a fuck.

[FunkyMonkee]

Lust is: you just want to fuck someone without having a serious relationship with them. Love is: you want to fuck someone WITH a serious a relationship with them.

[henju]

Love is a strong emotion which creates, enhances and bonds a relation. It's usually selfless. However lust is the physical drive to satisfy ones sexual hunger. If it's not with love it tends to be destructive.

[jcto21]

Well lust has to do with the person being selfish. It's about that person and that person only. Love is about the relation ship of respect. Think about it.

[xkildy]

Honestly it's about Age , maturity , and what you want.

[Savage_Wisdom]

Lust is I want to f*** you. Love is I want to be with you.

[leahzrc]

Lust is mindless and hormonal motherfuckers while love is accepting a person in every single way no matter how many quirks or oddities that they have

[DizzyDesii]

Love will marry the pussy. Lust will leave it soon after

[Renee93]

Love is wanting the greatest good for someone else.

Lust is desiring a person for your own personal pleasure. And not wanting their best.

[Ronald_25]

Simple answer: what you do after sex...

Please let me know if you want the detailed answer

[GD360]

One is motivated by sex and the other is not. Lust is about yourself and what you can take, and love is about what you can give, motivated by their happiness

[Clinton321]

Just like well you see a girl that got a bid Boob's and well u get it u get u got lost🏃.. but love can't run away because he Love's what inside you not what outside

[Kezzz]

Lust is physically being attracted to someone and thinking about that someone in sexual ways.
Love is more of an emotional attachment and desire to be with someone.
Love includes in itself lust.

[EpicDweeb]

... Why even answer when this picture literally describes the difference perfectly.

[nerms123]

Love means you care about their happiness and lust means you just want their body

[proteus912]

I think you lust for someone you can't have and you love someone you have formed a strong relationship with

[LowSelfSteem]

You could lust of your partner if you haven't seen them in a long time. But Lust is sexual driven where love is a emotion.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Lust= Hot flame of pleasure and excitement but dies out quickly or shortly afterwards.

Love= Involves sacrifice without being annyoned about it and is selfless and loyal.

[Guardian45]

Easy-pezy. Lust come and goes in a flash (from an hour to perhaps a year). Love lasts through thick and thin, it could be short-lived, but it tends to be long.

[Babygirl_S]

Love:Both of you can do stuff that lacks getting physically intimate.
Lust:Your relationship revolves around sex and you don't enjoy doing other things together.

[MrNice978]

Lust is when you 1st meets sumone your totally smitten An sexual electricity flows An feels gd Love comes after ya been seeing each other An time has passed An you have built trust truthful to each other that love when ya become 1

[Anonymous]

Let's put it that way your bitch ex only wanted you for sex, money and to control you. That's lust.
Your current girlfriend still pushes after you and you are a wreck, that's love.

[MinaSuzy97]

Love can easily be seen in the eyes it maybe not be logical but it's true

[FakeName123]

Rub one off. If you then still want to be with a girl despite being sexually satisfied, then you are on a good path.