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It's been said that 1 in 4 women will experience domestic abuse by their partner and majority of abuse in relationship are at the hands of men towards women. We also see that men often tend to mostly appreciate women being thin and dressing up pretty. When we look at relationship, many guys are controlling and expect women to submit to their wants and need. An example of this, comes from men throughout centuries expecting women to be virgins/little sexual experience and wait for him while he sticks his dicks in multiple women and then decides to marry her. This attitude is still prevalent today among guys.


Even dating seems very weird when you look at men expecting women to give affection/sex towards them just because they payed for a meal or gave them gifts.

Doing something out of spite means you're doing it with the intention of hurting somebody—it’s done out of anger, which is usually there because you feel you've been wronged in some way.

This doesn't necessarily have to be a "bad" thing. For example, pursuing a certain career because it went against your controlling parents' wishes (or because everybody said you weren't good enough), or cutting contact with a friend who abandoned you in a time of need, because you want them to feel what it's like to be abandoned.

Doing something out of love is, in many ways, the opposite of that: it means you're doing it with the intention of helping or pleasing somebody—it’s done out of care, which is usually there because you want the object of your affection in your life.

Likewise, this doesn’t necessarily have to be a “good” thing. For example, deliberately hurting someone else for your loved one’s benefit (e. g., throwing someone under the bus at work, so your girlfriend can get the promotion), or staying in a bad relationship because breaking up would hurt your children.


So, which one do you think is stronger?