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Really I'm so tired if this anti- America bullshit. Tearing down and damaging statues of our presidents? Trying to erase all of hour countries history? Creating divides based on race, something we have no control over? Making white people pretty much worship this new Woke religion of white gilt?
I'm so ashamed at you stupid ass white people that fall for that shit. Don't bend the knee! I'm Hispanic and was born in the United States. So were my parents, their parents, so on and so on. I'm an American and For those in the Untied States, so are you! That's our common ground. And yet this fucking group and leftists in general are trying to tear down everything we are. A place that's free. Free to have equal opportunity no matter what race, gender, religion, creed or anything else. Equal opportunity. NOT Equal outcome. That comes down to you and you alone.

How can you let one asshole cop make you lose your minds for killing one man? How many people have died during these riots? How many jobs destroyed? How many MORE people are gonna starve and commit suicide over losing their homes, jobs and not being able to provide for their families? Shit happens. Fucked up things happen and they will always happen, no matter what walk of life you're from or what you do.
All I know is if it comes down to a civil war, I'm choosing to fight for The United States of America. For freedom. And defend it against People who define you by your race, gender or political party. Who think you should bend to their thinking and if you don't, they'll hound you until they ruin your life. Just for disagreeing with them. Make you say your sorry for the act of speaking out. Why the fuck are people getting fired or even beaten just for saying you disagree with their ideas? Black lives matter and the leftist sound like the true fucked up people in all this. Now lets see if this post gets banned because someone dared to disagree with your leftist bull shit.

My girlfriend of only two months has been picking stupid fights recently and asking to break up.. and no matter what I do to calm her down and tell her we need to strengthen our bond, she always treats me coldly then picks up a fight the next day.. when I ask her if she loves me she says yes but then I ask then how the heck are you acting like this?
I have a feeling that she might have found someone that she likes more.. bcz every now and then I find her texting a new "friend" and we barely talk on the phone like an hour a day (and that's when we fight) before she tells me she's tired and wants to sleep.
What should I do?

I have seen MANY comments over the years i have been here where the commenter basically says that no matter what a woman does to a man it can never count as abuse because men are bigger and stronger.. Additionally they will say idiotic things like "you didn't fight back so you must have deserved it" What they are too stupid to understand is that when men dont fight back its because they know they will go to jail for it. In our world at least in the US, with the Duluth model (link included) If a man calls the police because he is being abused, he, not the abuser, will go to jail. He, not the abuser, will be charged. This happens more often than you might believe. If you look at some of the most recent statistics IPV/DV shows more than 40% of domestic violence cases are men, but fewer than 6% of men will actually report it for the reasons stated above, i know it happened to me.. I was not arrested, but i was told that i would have been if she was still there, when im the one bleeding from multiple spots on my face, and needing stitches.

The worst part of this is the fact that when men call DV hotlines, they are either told that they dont help men, or they are treated as the abuser. Additionally there are virtually no DV shelters for men, save for one in Arkansas. Most DV shelters take in only women, and once a boy is over the age of 12 they are turned away. Because of this men that are victims of DV tend to suffer in silence due to ridicule and the risk of going to jail.

Attached are links to the things i have talked about.

Good articles on the Duluth model
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Duluth_model

http://menweb.org/battered/batdulut.htm

Articles on DV against men.

https://thecrimereport.org/2018/06/27/when-men-are-the-victims-of-domestic-violence/

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence

https://nationalparentsorganization.org/blog/3977-researcher-what-hap-3977

I can only understand a handful of situations where trolling could be considered a bad thing. Like in cases of constant harrassment and bullying online based on a person's unfortunate situation and etc.


However. Most of the time, trolls are just saying silly shit. Stuff that people know not to take seriously.

I guess it's just the outrage culture society is filled with nowadays. Everyone wants to fight against rivaling views, until their eyes get red from looking at the screen for hours.


Just ignore them, if you know they're just saying something you don't agree with. Most of the time it will end up in a dumb discussion that leads nowhere...


So. Why do you get so triggered by dumb stuff online?


Also. Why do so many of you guys block someone for a different opinion? Even if someone says something you find stupid. You'll look like the loser of the argument.