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Once upon a time a woman named Kathryn was in the early stages of dating and sleeping with Antwan. She had an ex boyfriend named Jim that she openly stated was a "really good friend of hers". Kathryn stated that she texts him before going to his local wellness store to see if he is there and have items ready for pick up.

It is the Christmas holiday. Antwan is dating Kathryn but doesn't know Jim. They both have a mutual friend. A picture was put on facebook of their mutual friend in the first week of December. It was posted by Jim. Kathryn liked this picture. The caption of the picture said:

"Will miss my buddy. Looking forward to my trip to Mexico next week."

It is the holidays. Everyone seems to be traveling to places for Christmas. Kathryn has an older brother who lives in Mexico City. Antwan has been dating her for 3 weeks. She seems flustered and disoriented packing. They have sex. The next day she seems nervous. She kisses Antwan goodbye and leaves for Mexico.

While in Mexico she texts Antwan throughout the day. All day every day. Constant pictures. She is very into Antwan. But at one point she says she misses him but also loves Mexico so much she wants to return in the Summer for 3 months.

A few months go by. Kathryn texting her ex boyfriend Jim comes up. Antwan has been dating her for 2 months now. In bed he asks her why she needs to text this ex boyfriend to see if he is working at the store he owns. Kathryn says he is just a friend.

She says, "It's no big deal. He helped drop off my brother's Christmas gift."
Antwan says, "In Mexico?"
Kathryn corrects Antwan, "No. He prepared the gift items in his store before I left for me."

Wasn't Jim in Mexico at that point? Antwan then asks why they broke up. Kathryn wraps her arms around her stomach in bed and becomes annoyed saying, "I just don't like him like that. We didn't have good sexual chemistry."

Did Kathryn meet up with her ex in Mexico?

The closest I have had to a "girlfriend" is an online relationship. She is 18 and I am 26. She met me one time in person (this past November) and decided I wasn't attractive. I drove all the way from Illinois from Tennessee to see her, and dished put over $500 in travel expenses to see her and it was all a waste.

Another girl was 16 at the time and I was 20 and we lost our virginities to each other over a weekend. She did not want to have anything to do with me after that weekend.

I have had horrible luck with women. I even have a criminal record for stalking now because I was trying to win a girl's heart.

I don't know what to do.

I only want a woman without a romantic past, meaning a woman who has never had a boyfriend or even a male best friend whom she had feelings for, especially from her youth.