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Me & my girlfriend Amber have to together for a year. We barely have sex and I’m sexually frustrated. It really pisses me off that amber refuses and makes up excuses most of the time. When we do have sex she acts like she’s doing me a favour.

Every time we have an argument. Amber complains that she doesn’t get what she wants, and mentions that she gives me sex once a week. I know relationships are not 100% about sex. But it doesn’t make sense to stay with someone who isn’t sexually attracted to me.

Amber has a history of being a slut. She herself told me she used to date two guys at once. And for that same reason is why her and her dad didn’t talk for years. She clearly wants the dick and been around the block. So why is she acting like this?

Amber evens talks about her sex life with her ex. She complains that they barely had sex and he cheated. And how she thinks it’s abuse to not have sex with your partner.

Amber talks about marriage, wants to introduce me to her dad in a month. But I don’t think I can go through with this. I feel like I’m a simp, loser, the nice guy finishing last.

I know I’m not the best boyfriend either. She complains that I don’t text her unless I message her first. Which is somewhat true, but. I also forgot to charge my phone at night. Then when I’m at work I don’t keep my phone on me. Due to the fact that I work in a hospital. But still, that’s not reason for her to act like this.

The reason I stayed is because does a lot for me. For example, my car is in the shop and she picks me up from work whenever she has time. And cooks for me when she has food at her house.

Basically, my older sister is extremely liberal. My girlfriend is very conservative, church member, pro life, etc. She said at dinner table “vanilla is superior.” After discussing what ice cream flavor was our favorite. My older sister took it as a racist statement and replied “Shut the fuck up.”
My girlfriend was like “oh my. Sorry. You took it the wrong way.”

Everyone is white including myself so my older sister took it as a racist statement based on the way my girlfriend said it. I don’t know if she was being racist. I don’t think she was but not 100% sure on that. We dropped the conversation quickly.

Who is in the right?

My girlfriend Lacey has this friend named Carlos who lives in California. Lacey always talks about her friend Carlos from the states how he’s super cool. She said he comes up once a year and they hang out with a group of friends.

The other day I was on Instagram and Carlos showed up in suggestions. I decided to check his account. Saw Lacey made a comment I didn’t like on a picture of Carlos and his friend. She these exact words…..”You two are the cutest!! 😍 Miss ya!”. When I saw this comment it really upset me. This makes think her and Carlos had sex in the past.

We’ve been together for 7 months. We’ve had arguments about her having more male friends than female friends. And how I don’t like it. Then Lacey she said she’ll distance herself from guys and mainly hang with girls from now on. So I don’t even know if this worth mentioning.

Am I overreacting or not?