Should I report my boyfriend for abuse?

[Anonymous]

We were out together and we had an awesome time tbh. We had an argument and he slapped me I didn’t want to go with him or in his car i was terrified he literally had crazy eyes and i was sobbing like crazy. Problem is he wouldn’t let me go and he forced me literally shoved me into the car i continuously asked him to leave me alone and allow me to leave he continuously and in rage asked me “did i *EVER* hurt you? Even ONCE?” And he was frantic the obvious answer was yes & yes but i was too scared and i told him no nope never you never hurt me i just wanna go home though. He then took me to his house and literally the minute he parked he came to my door he opened it and he started dragging me out i held the door to resist him but i failed and I literally held him hands and dropped myself on the floor because I didn’t wanna GO with him i was literally like a baby that didn’t wanna be carried. He started dragging me and carrying me back to his place and i was losing it at this point tbh I literally freaked out i was hugging my knees to my chest and sobbing and sobbing and asking him to leave me alone and he took the chance to comfort me and remind me he is “my bf” and he “loves” me, and he sexually assaulted me but to him it was not sexual assault by any means he truly thinks we were making love because i am his girlfriend. I am very confused at the entire situation he obviously has issues but i am so scared of reporting him cause i have a bad feeling that he is worse than what i saw that night, and i am so scared to see his actual bad side.

[ohshee]

The next time you talk to him tell him goodbye tell him you've done is over with state of fuck out of your life because if you do not do that you might find yourself dead someday you never never never let a guy put his hands on you never never never let a man verbally abused you the moment you let that happen it will never stop it will get 10 times worse I don't care what he says and how many times he tells you he loves you he's a piece of shit and he is lying to you because people that love each other do not do that to each other he will tell you everything in the world to get back with you do not do it do never never never let a guy touch you ever I'm serious you need to walk away from this one and he's going to bug you if you need to understand that you're going to bug you and you just either need to not answer the phone or you need to tell him one time one time only stay the fuck out of my life I'm calling the police you touched me you hurt me you showed me exactly who you are and I don't like you stay the fuck out of my life and if he doesn't call the police or if you live in my city call me I will treat him the same way he treated you except for 10 times worse just to prove my point to him I'm serious if you do not listen it's just going to get worse you cannot actually love somebody that does this to you walk away now be done with it there's a hundred million guys out there that would love to treat you like an angel and take care of this guy will use any kind of excuse the pound on you because you allowed it to happen this time he will do it again walk away don't even walk away run away if he does not hear you call the police

[ZackBan]

The answer is obvious, first you dump him no matter what, and you do that over text because in person he might get violent again then you go straight to the police and tell them you've been assaulted, they will have you tested for signs of assault which, if all he did was as violent as you say, will be easily found.
With any lucky he gets arrested for it. But even if doesn't, this will be a mark on his record and should he ever go near you again you can go to the cops and since he has a history and did it before he will be charged for sure

[SnakeBoop]

Fuck yes report, and contact police towards getting a restraining order.
Being a boyfriend does NOT give him never-changing consent to put his hands on you, force you to do ANYTHING you do not want to. He is a dick, and should be an ex.

[jennifer_bloom]

You should break up with him immediately, you can find somebody else

[pynapplepy]

Yeah you shod report him, understandibly your afraid after going through that and no one could blame you for that.
Do you have a brother or close friend you can stay with or have over for a bit after making the report?
Speaking personally, were you my sister or close friend and you came to me telling me your boyfriend pulled that kinda shit he'd find himself hanging by the legs over a 20th storey balcony after a serious ass kicking.
So in that case id be saying dont report it ill handle it, but if you dont have such a person in your life you should absolutely report it and make sure you have someone around to keep you safe because if he honestly refuses to believe he did something wrong he'll probably feel wronged by you taking measures against him (measures which you are fully justified in taking so dont ever let him convince you otherwise)

[ChrisMaster69]

Erm, if I read that correctly, it’s rape.

and he sexually assaulted me but to him it was not sexual assault by any means he truly thinks we were making love because i am his girlfriend

not only should you be making him and ex and going to the police, you should be sitting down and going over this and let them decide if it’s more than simply sexual assault.

[SunnyFlorida]

Things are going to only get worse the longer you are in a relationship with this man. Contact the police and go to court to get a restraining order. Break it off with him permanently and have no further contact with him. Delaying will only make things worse - what happens if you get pregnant with his child? Don't delay, take action. Take emergency contraceptives.

[pink_and_inlove]

Leave him NOW it will get worse over time. You do not want this guy to be the father of your children besides a jerk like him is not worth all this emotional pain that you are going through.

[Anonymous]

Yes, of course you should.

You should also get the fuck away from that guy and never see him again.

[dudeinohio]

Go to police. You were raped. Dump him immediately and getva restraining order.

[888theGreat]

piece of paper ain't going to stop him

[Zygum]

He does not love you from heart, he only want casual sex with. Better you leave him and search other good guy

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

yeah

you're still a human, regardless of boyfriend/girlfriend

you should be treated, as such

[Fuentes]

Reporting is your choice but the biggest thing you should be doing is LEAVING

[888theGreat]

you better like go out of state for awhile

[888theGreat]

I see the liberals here telling you to get a piece of paper. They never stop these type of guys. Get him arrested , then buy a gun and practice with it. If he comes after you put one in his head.

[zagor]

GTFO from that relationship.

[Wise4myage]

Maybe its better to just dump him and move on?

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Yeah, probably