Do Instagram comments from the past matter?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend Lacey has this friend named Carlos who lives in California. Lacey always talks about her friend Carlos from the states how he’s super cool. She said he comes up once a year and they hang out with a group of friends.

The other day I was on Instagram and Carlos showed up in suggestions. I decided to check his account. Saw Lacey made a comment I didn’t like on a picture of Carlos and his friend. She these exact words…..”You two are the cutest!! 😍 Miss ya!”. When I saw this comment it really upset me. This makes think her and Carlos had sex in the past.

We’ve been together for 7 months. We’ve had arguments about her having more male friends than female friends. And how I don’t like it. Then Lacey she said she’ll distance herself from guys and mainly hang with girls from now on. So I don’t even know if this worth mentioning.

Am I overreacting or not?

Yes I’m overreacting

No I have a right to be pissed

[Anonymous]

The worse thing is... If she is like that you can't change her all you will get is she lying to you and hidding you things. She will keep talking to guys and commenting and hanging out with male friends but this time she will hide it to you because you dont like it. And you will never know. So better try to trust and ask her honesty if you caught her in a lie then decide what to do. But trying. To change things she like to do just will make her lie to you.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

My boyfriend knows most of my friends are dudes. I just don't get along with most chicks, i never have. This would ve an issue for me because this would mean he doesn't trust me, when thats the most important thing in a relationship.

[Asker]

She herself told me her guy friends are in love with her. So I told her it’s either me or them!

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Aaaahhhhhhhhh!!! THAT'S a whole different story! Im just one of the guys, they don't want to fuck me, that i know of.

[Anonymous]

Yes overreacting, she would be better off with Carl.