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Women as a general for the most part need the media and women around them to tell them if a man is attractive. This comes in the form of girl approval and is the ultimate deciding factor if a woman will want you for ONS, or a relationship.

Girl approval comes about because female gender is highly competitive. Quote take from a woman:

"Women do not have friends we have competition. We lie to our so-called female friends and pretend we are loyal and faithful to them, just like we do with the men in our lives. Secretly, we are jealous of each other, and we want all of the desirable things that other women have—most especially when it comes to our female friends’ things. And we consider men to be things."

So when a woman is deciding whether to get with you she needs to know that her friends and women around you are a catch. You can be a great guy on paper and boyfriend/lover for her but if her friends and/or women around her say your a loser then she's going to say your not a catch.
We see similar instances of girl approval in club settings when men just happen to approach the wrong woman for the first dance. If she flat out rejects him other women will be watching and basically your chances of getting a dance with another girl is greatly reduced. 2 or 3 more times and your basically looked at as a weirdo/loser in the club by women who is defective.
Girl approval can also work when we look at you getting rejected by a woman initially only to get an even hotter woman to be your girlfriend.
This was the quote taken by a female on gag as to why women would now consider chasing and wanting to be with you after that. This was the reason made by a female "Girls trust other girls' taste."

Women are also heavily influence by what media tells them is hot. Take 2 ugly guys but are actors and put them in a blockbuster movie and suddenly their sex symbols.