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I don't have a specific one in mind. I don't even know if any of the one's I'd like are single, let alone would be interested in me, and I have zero idea of how to approach, but this is more about the concept of if it's a good fit for me or not.

The entire concept seems unfitting for me because of how social it is.

I hate parties, and I don't like lots of attention. But it's just that I'm racking my brain trying to find a girlfriend who shares my interests and hobbies, and there are very few ways that those interests/hobbies manifest in public that result in seeing an actual person, and every time I see someone I think I would click with, it's one of those people...

Nearly all the activities I enjoy result in staying home by myself. And I do not know how to find artistically talented gamer nerds outside of the rare comicon or the overpriced arcade (which aren't very populated by my age group to begin with). Anyone I'd like is either a shut-in while doing those activities, or has one of those jobs.

Assuming you knew I was attractive, talented, a gamer, an artist, and a nerd (ie a male equivalent to these women), do you think I should persue this? Or do you have a better idea for finding that type of girl?

This girl (20) would drive 2 hours to see me (25) every weekend for 2 months, so she really liked me. It was always a really good time. We bonded right away and went on really fun/sexy adventures (stripping her naked and eating her ass on the beach) and a few dates. But I didn’t treat her like a girlfriend. I never called her, asked if she got home safe, snapchatted her, sent good morning texts, no relationship talk, but we texted everyday. It now feels like I was leading her on, even though she drove 2 hours to see me. Playing her was never my intention because I liked her too.

She recently started playing games so I called her out, she got mad, a brief argument happened, a few days later I kinda tried to make up for it, shortly later I was ghosted after saying “if you’re down to keep things going then so am I. You gotta admit it’s always a good time.

It’s been two weeks since the argument and a week since she ghosted me. Should I send her “I get it. There’s a lot of things I wish I did but it’s in the past. Our shenanigans were wild. Hopefully you find someone who isn’t two hours away”

If not, what else should I say?

Us men sometimes feel that we have to get out of the house and go out with our friends to play poker, fish, watch sports, have some fun, or just disconnect while she stays home with the kids, or clean, etc,..

Would it be okay for you if your girlfriend or wife to do the same while you stay home and clean or watch the kids.