Search Results: i don't even know how to approach him

My boyfriend met me when i was drunk at a party. I was surprised that he asked me out even though i knew he knew that i liked to party. Like, guys usually ask me out when im not drunk, or i drank very little. I like to get drunk, bc i wanna feel good and not worry bout shit for a least 1 night. I'm not an easy girl tho, i had only 1 night stand in my life and regret it, i was vulnerable, i felt i wasn't really worthy. And now i still get drunk when i go out sometimes, other times i drink less, but i would never cheat, i control myself even though im very drunk. But i know some guys don't like girls who drink, bc they think they might cheat, or they think they're going to be easy, so they dont wanna make any efforts. And when i go out and i get drunk, every guy that approaches me, thinks im easy, thinks im gonna cheat. I don't even dress slutty. And im very thankful that i found my boyfriend, who doesn't judge, and doesn't see me as a sexual object, and wanted to know me even though he saw there drunk and vulnerable.

Yo! So I thought I was pretty good looking woman. (I won't provide a picture, sorry not happening). Maybe, I'm not a perfect ten but I didn't think I was below an 8 tbh. However, I never get approached when I put effort into the way I look (which is practically everyday). I always do my makeup and hair every morning, but on the days I slip up (like I did today) and have a bad hair day or go without makeup, guys usually approach me. While that may seem flattering its acually a little offensive and disheartening because I put a lot of effort into looking pretty and it seems to usually go unnoticed. So I was wondering if guys approach a girl who has a ponytail and isn't wearing any makeup more often than they would a girl who is trying (and I think succeeding) to look good is it because they either a. Find her more attractive when she doesn't try so hard, b. Feel a little courageous since she isn't as stunning, c. Find her to be uglier with no makeup and therefore, easier to woo or to have sex with😒, or d. Some other reason

Ps. I am very good at doing hair and makeup I have an eye for the stuff. I dont wear too much either so its not like I come across as a cake face. I dont even wear eyeshadow or contour I just use eyeliner and do my brows most days. So I know its not that I just have bad makeup skills or that Im using too much makeup.