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Most of us, if not all of us, have been there. Beginning of the relationship our legs are SMOOTH, god forbid our partner feels stubble on our legs, or, for others, our genitals! But, over time, relationship milestones are met. From farting/burping in front of our partner, to pooping with them still in the house & awake, to becoming lax on our shaving routine.

I had gone over my boyfriend's house, we are still very early into the relationship, & I didn't bring a razor... I hadn't planned on being there as long as I was & the day before I left my legs were hairier than I was comfortable with him feeling. He was rubbing my feet (he practically begged me to rub them, I think he secretly has a foot fetish, which is fine by me) & I told him to stop when I felt him start going up to my ankle & the lower part of my calf. When he asked why & I told him, he held my leg in place, ran his hand up my PJ bottoms, started rubbing my leg & said "You're so sexy, even when you're fuzzy". This made me happy because I have sensitive skin & my routine is normally every 4-5 days (hooray for being blonde!).

I'm curious to know how long it takes for ladies to relax on their shaving routine in a relationship.

I know most of you will say you dont believe in leagues but we’re going to discuss it anyways. If i’m being 100% honest, if i feel someones out of my league, its likely because i dont see myself working to get to their level. For example, if i got all dolled up and Brad Pitt took me on a date, I’d end it with “I had a great time but you're so out of my league.” I say that because 99% of the time, I’m going to be dressed in sweats and walking around with that “i just woke up” bed hair 😂 I’m not willing to make the efforts to get on his level in the long run, so I may as well say he’s out of my league, send him on his way, and save him from my lack of efforts since I’m not willing to change. Now lets say, he likes me for the tomboy i am. Its happened before. But i dont fully trust they’ll stay happy. I liked this guy Robbie in college. He was 9/10 gorgeous. Dude looked like a model but he liked plain jane ole ME. However, I overheard comments he made to other guys about how cute he found the girls covered in makeup and wearing dresses. It was clear that my lack of efforts to appear more feminine would mean that I’d never truly be enough for him. So why waste my time if i refuse to be that girly girl that he would find MORE attractive in the long run. So i quit pursuing him 🤷‍♀️ I had an ex who told me “youre too much” and literally followed up with the fact that he didn't want to get a job and do his part in the relationship. He said he wanted to let his parents take care of him as long as possible so that he could sit around and play games all day. See he wanted me to stay but that warning was a way to save me from himself. I say take it with a grain of salt and see the statement as a compliment rather than just someone being insecure.
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