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I’m having a girlfriend for the first time at 32, she’s 42. Due to the fact that she’s my first girlfriend I’m very immature and naive. I think like a 12 year old in terms of romance. I don't know if the good outweighs the bad. So in this question I’m gonna share with you the pro and cons.

Pros
1. Food: always cook for me on her days off. Even took the time to learn my favourite recipes.

2. Budgeting: She’s very smart with her money. We both have over 50k saved up with no debt. We have it planned to buy a house together and pay a low interest rate.

3. Open-minded: I can talker her about almost anything and she’s a good listener.

4. Very sharing: She let me borrow her car for 3 weeks when mine got totalled. Every time she gets bonus pay she’s willing to spend on me.

Cons

1. Has temper: Every time she has to explain something to me a second time she screams me. We end up fighting and not talking for days.

2. Conceited: She believes she so hot that every man in the world wants her. Her exact words “I have a big ass and D cup breasts. Every guy wants me”. Women should be confident but this is ridiculous.

3. Verbal/Emotional abuse: She tells me that I’ve never had a girlfriend because I’m socially awkward & weird. And how I’ll never find anyone better than her. And that the only reason she agreed to date me is because I’m handsome with muscles. And if I stop working out she’ll replace me.

4. Shallow: She refuses to date guys her age and only wants younger men. Nothing wrong with dating younger, but refusing to date your own age is dumb.

5. Male friends: She only has 4 female friends, the rest are guys. She even admitted a couple of them want her. She has a male bestie Alex who she texts almost every day. Whenever Alex has a girlfriend he barely texts her and she gets mad. She agreed not to hang out with guy after I told I’m uncomfortable, she said I’m “just being jealous”.

Is this how a relationship is supposed to be? please give me the best advice with your comments.

What I mean is let say you had found this very nice guy or very nice girl, they are literally everything you have wanted in your ideal woman or ideal man. They gotten your ideal physical look down, they had gotten all of your requirements in which activities you were looking for in a man or woman. Not only that they also happened to be one of the kindest person you had met.
The person who you are dating with want to be able to officially spend the rest of their lives with you, by proposing you you with a very beautiful ring.

Everything has been going great because you managed to find the guy/girl you had always been dreaming of but it could even be better. It turns out you have been selected to protake in the job you had been begging to do. Everything you have been financially and studying for had now officially come to your doorstep, you will have the once and a chance to finally accomplish the career you have been literally preparing for. You have everything you have ever wanted your dream job and your dream partner but here is the problem you can't have both. Remember you fiance has gave you their heart and proposed to you, while your manager or investors have giving you their money and acknowledgement on your financial future. So you come to a big decision, which one seems more important to you, do you prefer spending the rest of your life with your future wife/husband or you really want to hopefully make big money and accept the job you been literally fighting to get? I know this is an extremely shallow answer but I rather take the money over the girl, to me sometimes relationship can either comes and goes but as somebody who was homeless one, I definitely wouldn't want to risk that again, I definitely take the job offer. But how about you ladies and gentlemen, which one do you want love or money?