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there's this guy that i’ve gotten closer to in the past weeks despite knowing him for years. We have a class together and have recently started talking. We have been talking in class a LOT and texting.

In person he’s really sweet and has went out of his way to talk to me on more than one occasion. He smiles at me in the halls and when one of our mutual friends said “the trio” (me plus 2 of my other friends) are crazy this guy defended just me by saying something along the lines of “oh but ___ isn't like the other two”

He also told me on snapchat 2 days ago (when we first started texting) that he believes I’m way better than my 2 best friends.

2 problems, though. One, he’s an extremely dry texter so I can’t tell if he’s not interested or just dry in general. He’s dry with our mutual guy friend, as well. Plus, when one of my friends texted him he just left it on opened which he doesn’t really do to me. He’ll reply it will just be dry.

Second thing, last night he told me he has a girlfriend. I believe they started dating a few weeks before we started talking but he’s never mentioned it until I practically dragged it out of him yesterday. She’s a year younger than us and I’ve never seen them together but, as he pointed out, he has hickeys on his neck.

I obviously don’t want to steal this girl’s (whoever she is) man so I’m not gonna flirt or anything I just want opinions on what’s happening.

The guy I’m seeing introduced me to female best friend and I do not like her one bit. best friend. First off he never told me his best friend was a girl every time he mentioned ash, I presumed he was talking about a male.

I went in with just thinking it doesn’t matter that she’s female it’s just his friend. But as the more we started drinking in the bar the more she was hanging out of him stroking him and it was so embarrassing. As all my friends brought it up how inappropriate this girl was being towards my boyfriend. My boyfriend saw I was furious and told me she normally doesn’t behave this way.

My personal opinion is that people of the opposite sex that are both straight cannot be friends without some sort of flirting or one of them getting feelings. Any guy friend I’ve ever had has tried to sleep with me or flirted.

I really like this guy but I’m not going to be made out to be some idiot and not going to put up with this girl either. Have you ever been in this situation or are you the best friend?