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In real life, the internet, media... etc its obvious that women like good looking men, like really like them and its probably easier to get laid if you're good looking... but what about a serious relationship?

I read it in so many forums and even asked some girls in real life and they all give the same answer... good looking guys attract lots of women, they usually have experience with women, they can get women easily, and simply put women are not very interested in being with a guy like that , a guy that has options and if he chooses he can leave... sometimes i find it to be just a bunch of bull.

other times i look at myself and my friends, we're all fairly good looking guys and get complimented, and started at by women often, not to mention hit on sometimes... but having anything serious and meaningful seems rather hard, either women dont give us the time of the day, and when they do they dont seem interested in anything serious and want to boost their self esteem... when we look around we see all these average and bellow average guys with gfs, and sometimes even hot ones, and we can't help it but wonder what they have and we dont, esepcially when some of these guys have personalities as bland as their looks and aren't that rich or popular... so what makes women choose average men over attractive ones when all other stats are equal?