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If you take a jaunt over to any YouTube comment section (or just stick around on GAG long enough) you'll see spiteful, belittling, negative comments being hurled around by sad people with low self-esteem (or too much self-esteem depending on who you ask). These comments are generally designed to either demonstrate their attention-whoredness, inflame the audience or attack the user who posted their video/question/opinion, etc

You all know the comments I'm referring to.
'Wow, he's so f*cking fat. Get off the couch and fetch yourself another bag of chips, lardass.'

'Ugly as f*ck.'

'All that makeup just makes her look like a slut.'

'No offense, but you really need to <insert highly-offensive negative implication here>'

There's generally 2 schools of thought on the people making these comments:

1) Anonymity brings out the worst in people: They're actually a really nice/misunderstood person in real life. It's just on the internet they're an asshole. Kind of like driving a car & how some people roadrage.

2) Anonymity helps show a person's true colors: It's always been there. Deep down, they're really assholes; it's just now showing because they don't have to worry about consequences.

Which side of the fence do you sit on?

Met a guy and we hit it off - SO DRAWN TO EACH OTHER! But, he kept me at a distance, letting me in then backing away, for 2 months now. We just talked, until Saturday night. We bumped into each other and he really wanted to make sure I got home safe. He brought me to his place for the night, then took me home in the morning. We never had sex or even kissed, but he chose to cuddle me. And, he chose to kiss my cheek goodbye, which he doesn't do with just friends. Then, Monday, I get this email from him...

I think I'll explain my romantic reticence a bit just so everything is in the clear.

My ex has been in school in boston for the past two school years; we were doing long-distance until the fall when we decided to break it off. Lately she's been telling me that she's applying for jobs in SF (along with Portland and Seattle), and we hung out when I was in Boston a couple of weeks ago. I don't really know what's going to happen with that situation to be honest, there were problems that I'm not sure her being here would solve, even though I don't know if she is actually coming back at this point. In some ways it feels like she is toying with me, although she most likely just doesn't know what she wants either.

Anyway, this is all probably TMI, but I just wanted to explain why things didn't progress yesterday or why I might come off as cool or aloof (well, more so than normal). I just thought it would be really unfair to you while I the other situation is still developing (even though it really took a lot of will power with you there so dreamlike). When we first started talking she was pretty much dead-set on staying in boston, so I felt it might be time to move on more seriously. I guess now I dont really know what is up.

I'm really sorry I led you on in any way. I do like you, there's just a big part of me invested in that relationship and person, and while its been chipped away I can't say its not still a big chunk.

Sorry if this comes off as all dramatic, but I guess it has been for me!

So, is he saying goodbye??? I'll not hear from him again???

I met a guy who is 2-3 years younger than me over a dating app. It took him over 2 weeks to ask me out, over text! He never does call which I am fine with because I never do know what to say over phone. The 1st date was really awkward with me asking most of the questions and him talking. He hardly smiled at all even though we talked until the restaurant almost closed on us. I gave him some chocolates and a pat on the back. He texted me as soon as he got home though and the day after. But, it took him yet another 3 days to propose a 2nd date.

The 2nd date was equally awkward, he just doesn't seem to relax his poker face and I noticed that his hand was visibly shaking when he was dipping his chip. Afterwards he asked me what I would like to do? I really have no idea, why does he expect me to plan the date? I really am not a bad girl, I just didn't know what else to suggest when he asked, I invited him to my place since he was driving me home anyway, and we played some board games and talked. I am scared that he thinks poorly of me over this?

When he was leaving, he reached out his hand, so I shook it, then he said that he was actually reaching for a hug, so I gave him a hug... then he left and doesn't initiate any text that night or the next morning.

At the beginning of the 2nd date we exchanged books to read... so now I have his book... do you think we messed up the 1st date and the 2nd date so badly that it is over now?

During the date he also mentioned that he told his friend's wife about me... and then he added that she is "my age." We are only 2-3 years apart... what is with the "my age" and "your age" thing? He has a problem with me being older?