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My boyfriend 18 m, has adhd, so him not responding for hours because of his hyperactivity or hyper focus is super normal, and I learned that earlier. But I feel like something is off, our texting schedule is a bit weirder than it used to be, so instead of not responding to my recent message, he’ll call me hours later throughout the day and we’ll talk for a few hours, then he’ll lie and say “my moms calling me” to get off the phone. Secondly, he hasn’t called me many pet names recently, he usually calls me babe or goldfish and he hasn’t, and I know it’s stupid to be worried but I read so many articles of guys falling out of love with their girlfriend because they lost interest. He just seems less romantic than he usually is... it’s only been a few days since he’s started this, and it’s making me so nervous.

After reading this would you trust a woman with that history to be a good mother?

My cousin and her friend once escalated to hurting two little kids for no reason. She was then 10 years old. Sadism/torture was involved on it and she got detained (either in a reform school or mental institution, not sure) for 5-6 years. She was supposedly diagnosed as a trouble child with PTSD, ADHD and conduct disorder. In the juvenile court, it was said that while her friend cried, she appeared be giggling and smirking.

She's nearly 21 years old by now and supposedly finally has remorse for her actions. She wants kids in the near future. This is a poll for you. Would you trust that she can be a good mother?