He was kind of shy at first, but later on got super drunk and chatty. Said he’s shy around people he likes and he’s got adhd. Nothing happened that night as he wasn’t feeling good and threw up. We did sleep together in the morning. Next day he was back to his quiet self but was definitely interested in talking to me. He was kind of touchy, even though I told him previously I don’t like pda. Later back at my place I felt like he was pulling back a little. Felt like something had happened during those couple of hours back at my place, thought it was maybe something I said. We didn’t sleep together that night since he didn’t make a move but he did cuddle me. Next morning I thought he was gonna leave but he wanted to go to the park near my house. Even when we came back he still wanted to hang out, have lunch and watch a show. He asked me if I’m coming to his place next. I was kind of shocked since I thought he wasn’t into me anymore. I tried to play it cool said yeah maybe if you’ll show me around. He said yeah maybe in the next couple of weekends then, I said I should be free. Finally he said he should get going, seemed kind of fidgety and then kissed me. He was smiling, said he had a fun weekend. Later that night he texted he’d gotten home and had a lovely weekend. I said so did I. Next day he asked how was work, we made some small talk that didn’t go nowhere. Then again he texted me the next night asking me if I’m free this weekend, I said they asked me to work on Friday. I then confronted him asking if he’s actually into me because he didn’t seem to be that comfortable around me and we don’t text as much as we used to, that we can be straight with eachother. He replied 35 hours later saying he had a very bad day. I just thought he blew me off and replied a day later saying I’m sorry hope all’s good. He didn’t open my message so I texted him hey a week later but he didn’t reply. I don’t understand did he ghost me or what? And why? I told him he can be honest.
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I guess what I actually wanted to ask what happened during those couple of days? One moment he was telling me he had a lovely day and asking me if I’m free this weekend and I said no and asked him if he’s really feeling us because I don’t think he is and we can be straight with eachother. Was it that question that made him change his mind? And by replying he had a very bad day I just felt that wasn’t an excuse. I never double text but this time I felt like I had to. Probably shouldn’t have.
