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If humans didn't need sex to reproduce and sex didn't exist would people still date? Without sexual desire would guys still care about asking girls out and taking them on dates?

I met this girl in the University. She is a bit shy person but I was attracted by her beauty the first time I met her around. She was eating her lunch alone and so I approached her to be friends. She was very kind and I did not expect it was the start of our closeness together.

Other than that, I find her hardworking person and smart and even has a nice voice to hear.
The only thing I maybe did not like about her is she is too shy but she is damn loyal and has a good heart.

I fell in love with her and started to ask her out to be my girlfriend. She was crying and even hugged and say yes. I took her out to real dates and even make her very happy every second I am with her. After six months of our relationship, I was asking to sleep with her but she said she is not yet ready and felt embarrassed. I asked her if she was still a virgin and she said “she is not anymore “ she had sex once to his secret boyfriend one year ago , he did not have chance to introduce him to her family because of strictness. And she thought that ex boyfriend she had was serious but he was only after her virginity.

i don’t know how I feel after that confession, I love her but she is not virgin anymore. Should I take this girl seriously or even considering her marrying? Or not.

(Please vote below and have your comments )

Here are some facts about us

- We’ve been together for about a year
- Age difference is 5 years. I’m 25, she’s 20.
- She lives in Germany and we met through our mutual friends

When we were in the honey moon phase, I wanted to talk to her everyday. But not anymore.
Let me explain this...

I think I don’t miss my girlfriend as much as she does. Even though she’s very mature for her age, she can still be little childish about some stuff. I don’t mean to say she’s clingy because she certainly isn’t. However, I don’t feel the need to talk to her as much as she wants to.

I love her so much. I’m thinking about asking her to marry me when she finished university. We get along super well, our conversation are great and I don’t want to lose her.

But this doesn’t mean I want to talk/texts as much as she wants to. She doesn’t want to talk everyday or anything, it’s more liek 2-3 as week.

She sometimes says to me “i know you love me but why don’t you show it to me?” But for me, I think the fact I love her is what matters, not just some texts. Because isn’t that what’s important?

She said “you used to give me attention and time but now I’m the least priority in your life” . I know she’s sad especially because we’re in a lomg distance relationship.

I want to make this work, and make her less sad but at the same time I don’t know if I’m being unreasonable or not.

What do y’all think?