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Hello. I am just a little bit over 21 stone/136 kg/300 lbs and I had a REINFORCED bed that seems to be very strong but lately every time I go to sit on it, lay on it or even sit up the wooden slates constantly pop out of the black things that are meant to hold them in place. About 2-3 pop out daily and it's a struggle moving my whole mattress of to pop them back in again. I have a very weak right arm/elbow so the job isn't easy. I'm starting to believe it's because of my weight. The bed goes up to 21 stone (my size) but maybe it's just not strong enough? I'm also 5'11 female so I am quite heavy. I'm looking for a new bed and I saw one that goes up to 26 stone and is Welded mesh. It's heavy metal all over with 3 heavy metal things under the Welded mesh all over. I don't think anything will pop out or even break, but I just want to ask you guys opinion before I buy this. This bed is incredibly cheaper than the one before, which was a double but this time I'm getting a single... Thank you. Here is a photo of the NEW bed I will be getting if you think it is ideal for my size and height. PLEASE be honest... Do you think the metal squares will break or come undone even if I sit down? I'll be getting a thick memory foam mattress too. I do like high beds. Thank you, please be really honest. I don't want to buy this just for the metal parts to fall out due to my size! (The bed is reinforced) This metal bed is the one I'm going to be getting.

This is what my bed looks like right now. I turned around earlier and 3 of the wooden slates popped out and left a dent. I couldn't sleep and I don't have to energy to put them in again. Thanks.

The ones on the left are the ones that popped/fell out. The one on the far right is the one that's still intact.

My body type is very slender. I'm around 5'3 and weigh about 100, but a decent amount of my weight is muscle. I'm really self conscious about my body because I have really small boobs and narrow hips and a small but (which doesn't look too bad without clothes but with clothes it looks very small). The only thing I really have going for me is a defined waste and long legs but guys today are all over the "curvy" body type, which I am a the complete opposite of. I have very little curves and my body is mostly toned muscle, except I currently have about a half inch of fluff on top of my stomach which I could get rid of with crunches but I'm not too worried about it because it's winter. But overall, I'm worried that my slender body type is seen as disgusting, and I always feel unwomanly compared to curvy girls. I see some guys say they like skinny girls but it's really rare that I do. I drew some sketches of my body that are accurate for an example, but before you comment just know that no, I cannot gain weight because my metabolism is too fast. What is your personal opinion on this sort of body type?