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Search Results: have cake and eat it too
Is he committed to the relationship?
A guy has a live in Girlfriend that he calls his"girl" but also has a long term lover on the outside that the live in Girlfriend may or may not know about. Would you say that this guy is committed or would you say he's...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Girlfriend's birthday?
For my g f's birthday I had no money so I got her a cake we could eat together @ her place and a card. she seemed fine about it cause I buy her a gifts when its not her birth day too. few days later when we had an...
Anonymous
(36-45) Am I being played or used....again???
I have been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months now. In the last month he has begun blowing me off a good bit. He would make plans then cancel them. I never knew what he was doing or who he was with. When we...
baygirl
Xper 5 Age: 33 My ex is confused and doesn't know what he wants. How do I not let him have his cake and eat it too?
My ex broke up with me because he needs to figure out if our relationship is right for him. I guess I kinda understand because we are young and I really don't want to force him into a relationship that he doesn't want to...
Anonymous
(30-35) My ex is moving in with new girlfriend but keeps texting me... ?
My ex whom I was with for 2 years keeps texting me and asks me not to forget him even though he is moving in with his new girlfriend of 4 months tomorrow? He says he doesn't know where this journey will take him or what...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) What to really think about how he feels?
I started dating an ex boyfriends brother and we have gotten close. He seems to tell me all this crap about liking me and not wanting me to date anyone else, but then ditches me when we are supposed to hang out and...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why can't we have our cake and eat it too?
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bitesizedonut
Xper 4 Age: 38 Why do guys want to "have their cake and eat it too"?
You love a girl, but want "to have your cake and eat it too!" why? I realize I huge part of this situation has to do with the girls allowing it. What does a guy want when this ideal situation blows up in his face and the...
Anonymous
(30-35) My ex contacts me all the time. He has a girlfriend but calls me all the time. What does he want?
We have not slept together, although he has told me that he has cheated on her multiple times and she has taken him back. He calls multiple times during the week and we have long conversations about many things. He does...
Anonymous
(36-45) Isn't ready for a relationship but he says it's not me?
This is a pretty long story... there's a guy I've been seeing off an on for about 2 years, we started off as "fun" buddies he was getting out of a 7 year relationship with his now ex fiance last November and saw me in...
sunnycdn
Xper 5 Age: 41 How long is TOO long - fwb?
Ok- so almost exactly 1 year ago, what was thought to be a one night stand turns out to be a really nice guy. We get to know each other and quickly become fwb'z- side note is that we are also now BEST FRIENDS literally....
boricuaNYstyle1
Xper 5 Age: 39 Why did he change his mind?
I've been exclusively dating a guy for 3+ months. He initially wanted to get serious right away (as in make things official: girlfriend/boyfriend etc). I said I wanted to take things slower and he said that was ok. Lately...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is he using me?
My ex and I broke up with each other about 7 months ago. Before that, we were together for about a year. I still really care for him but we both know the love is no longer there. Not to mention, he has a girlfriend that...
Anonymous
(36-45) Indecisive about whether or not sleeping around while I'm young.
Hey everyone, thanks in advance for taking the time to read and answer my question, which is :Should I sleep around while I'm young?( Sorry the details are so lengthy) I don't know what to do. I'm 19 years old, and I...
Fading
Xper 5 Age: 36 Why did my ex send me flowers on our 3 year anniversay?
So my ex and I broke up 3 weeks ago, we were together for 3 years. I was suppose to move in with him but he changed his mind three days before the move saying he's not ready for marriage and that we should take a 2nd...
limchr
Xper 5 Age: 46 Am I making myself too available? I don't understand why he's rude all of a sudden?
okay so there's a guy in my hall and we were pretty good friends last year. we hooked up A LOT. like seriously every weekend. sadly, he had a girlfriend but the only reason I hooked up with him is because he constantly...
Anonymous
(36-45) Cake and eating it too?
Why do people like to have their cake and eat it too? Is this the sign of an insecure person? Do they just don't know what they want out of life? Or is it something else? What's your theory and have you been in the...
Anonymous
(36-45) What does "have your cake and eat it too" mean?
ok this may sound stupid but seriously what does it mean? think about it if you have a piece of cake why the hell not eat it? what else do you do with it? I know its just a figure of speech when people say it but to me it...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Why is my ex boyfriend calling if he said he wants to cut contact?
My ex moved out of our flat suddenly a little over a month ago, and said he wanted to break up. I've no idea why he just said he would be happier. Over the past month he has text me exactly when he pleased, I didn't text...
nursesian21
Xper 4 Age: 38 How do you tell someone that they can't be in your life anymore?
Okay so loooong story short is that my ex boyfriend and I have a very complicated relationship, but basically we've been broken up for ten months now and I feel like he is using me. It's your typical he "wants his cake...
Anonymous
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