He said that he had been waiting for me to bring this issue ("us") up sooner and that I hadn't so he didn't know exactly HOW slow I wanted things to go. He also said that he wasn't looking to get married or get really serious (well...um neither am I, but I don't think that you need to have marriage in mind to be able to be serious with someone) and that he wanted more of a casual, no-strings-attached relationship. Oh and he also mentioned that he didn't know if we were even right for each other and said that he often thought I was too much of a good girl for him but went onto say that he still didn't know me very well.
WTF is going on. It was like word vomit coming out and I was so taken aback that I barely had time process what he was saying.
why the hell is he with me and acting like my boyfriend when he "doesn't even know if we're right for each other". and I know the simple answer would be to say that he wants to have his cake and eat it too, but he's not out to take advantage of me. I'm not that stupid. (or so I'd like to think)
I'm not going to waste my time on someone who doesn't take me seriously. I'm not asking for marriage, I'm asking for a mutual respect and acknowledgment of what we have. (or what I thought we had). Can I chalk this up to immaturity and not knowing what he wants? Why did he change his mind!?
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