Search Results: weight issues

Every woman I’ve known, that’s beautiful, never has an issue finding a boyfriend. I’ve lost weight and feel like I need to lose more to find a man. saw a guy for a few months and everyone said I was more attractive than him, yet he moved on so quickly. And I want to move on, but I have no luck finding a guy. I only attract ugly men, what’s wrong with me? Does that mean I’m not ugly too?

Does anyone else feel the same way that I do? I am as lonely as they come. I have never felt in my life, like I fit in with anyone. Everywhere I’ve went, there’s always been someone (s) that didn’t like me. I feel like I am a bit on the ditzy side and lack competence. I’ve always had issues with my weight and have always been invisible. I’ve never had true friends, even when I attempted to put myself out there and be friendly. As a result, I am completely alone. I don’t get along with my family and live with my dog. I don’t ever get asked out my guys and when I have, they were guys that I did not find attractive. What about me is so undesirable? Why am I so hopeless? It doesn’t feel nice knowing that you’re better off dead on a daily basis, contemplating and wondering “what if”. Even after trying medication and counseling, I only end up feeling frustrated and as if I wasted my time. Anyone else relate?

I want to understand why I always end up attracting drama with people. While people may say I’m the issue, I don’t think I am. I’m very quiet and only speak when spoken to. In HS, middle school, work, college etc, I have been around all types of people. There’s always one person that dislikes me for no reason. I’m 25 and I have developed major anxiety as a result of my trauma. This anxiety is worsening things for me, because I’m alienating myself. And as a result, people are continuing to judge me negatively because of how quiet I am. I’ve been told things like I’m unapproachable etc but people see what they want to see. I don’t think I’m a bad person or go out of my way to hurt others. So why do people develop issues with me or bring me down etc? My own family did this to me, people I trusted and have known for my existence. At work now, there are women who are close with almost everyone but me. And I’ve never done anything to them. Not to mention, my lack of dating life. I’ve never been asked out by a guy I’d like to date, only unattractive men. I’ve lost a lot of weight and try to maintain my thick/slim figure. So why am I always alone? I swear there’s this curse on me I can’t put a finger on.