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My best friend and I got into a fight recently. About a boy, I'm now dating and I really really like. To start off, I broke up with my ex boyfriend about three months ago and met my boyfriend when I went to my grandma's house for a two weeks and a half. Turns out he goes to my uni but is just in a different department. When we both returned from our vacation, we constantly met up after school, and I din't tell my friends because I was afraid they'd judge me for seeing someone right after my break up so I was waiting for the right moment.

Two weeks ago, my friend tells me she likes someone from her part-time job and everything. I ended up finding out it was my boyfriend. During that time, I stopped talking to my boyfriend and basically broke up with him but staying away from him hurt too much and we ended up getting back together.

Because of this, I decided to tell my friend I was dating him and she didn't react well. She got mad and called me a slut and that I was stealing every man from her because, she used to like my ex boyfriend too but he liked me. Before him, there was another guy in our high school who we both liked but he liked me instead and I decided not to pursue anything with him at that time.

I feel terrible towards her and now she says she doesn't want anything to do with me. Our friends found out and now, half of them are saying I'm at fault but I honestly don't think and I can't break up with my boyfriend because I seriously love him way too much to give him up. Yet I do want to make it up to her.

How can I fix things with her and keep the person I love? Is it really my fault her crushes liked me back? This isn't even a boasting post where I'm trying to look desirable. I never did anything to make them like me.

Well, I’m in such shock and can’t believe what happened. I’ve been at what was my current job for 4 months in career services at a college. You all have seen my posts, today is the straw that broke the camels back. I really felt like I was trying my best and my boss was pretty positive towards the quality of my work, I have felt micromanaged at times tho (lot of pressure due to meeting placement rate). She said I was one of the stronger people in the office but she’s been up my ass so what is it?

Today during a call she told me to do something and I clapped back saying I DID in fact do it, she’s ready to give orders and assume I didn’t do it. She replies to an email saying that we should do something different instead, all of these new things that are coming out of the woodworks. I was actually about to leave the building and not come back right b4 we had a big meeting to discuss graduation tomorrow.

I talked to my dad and he said just say you were at the bathroom. I was 10 min late, a coworker came looking for me with an attitude and my boss was yelling at me in front of the other people in the meeting saying that she wants to talk to me after. They proceeded like nothing happened, someone asks me a question and I turn to my boss saying “this is the way I’m being treated for the ONE time that I’m actually late to something”. And she said that was beyond the point, to not talk about it now. I said I’m not dealing with this, dropped my notes on the table and walked out. Left my desk keys on my desk and drove off.

Mind you, this was at 5 PM. I haven’t gotten any calls or emails. I am really shocked that I got such cunty behavior, when I have not seen this side of leadership. The ONE time I’m late?

Would you all have done the same?