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Been seeing a girl for a month. She's been very aggressive saying that she likes me. I saw that she had a 2021 journal and she showed me that one of her "goals" was to be in a relationship with me. Yes. We've been having sex and spending a lot of time with one another. Making meals together and for each other. Etc.

I am a musician. I have a band. One time when she was in my apartment I played her a song that I recently wrote and she started crying. Anyways...a few weeks later I told her that I wrote a song for her. When she was in my apartment I offered to play it for her. She refused to allow me to play it. She said that she gets too emotional and she didn't want to hear it. I also am a writer and i had a story published. I told her about it and sent her a link to the short story. As far as I know she has never read the story and never even brought it up. Is all of this a red flag?

To me relationships are a privilege not a right. I am just sick and tired of all these women getting overly emotional when a mean cheats on her. If you were rational you would just move on and try to find a man that won't cheat. You shouldn't even cry about it for one second.

My friend @Physics-Man is a good man and I would like to offer him some hope and encouragement with this post. He recently posted a question
How are nerdy, introverted, socially awkward, eccentric weirdos supposed to get a girlfriend or even a date in a scene not meant for us?
asking what a nerdy, introverted, socially awkward, eccentric weirdo is supposed to do about dating because he doesn't fit into the dating scene and he feels that there are no girls out there who would be interested in someone like him.

First, I don't necessarily agree with his assessment of himself but I've learned not to argue with people about such things. I think he is the kind of guy who is the salt of the earth, who will one day be an excellent husband and father, the kind of guy that a girl will be married to for 58 years until the day he or she dies, and they will make beautiful nerd babies together. But he obviously feels like a square peg in a round hole world and that is a heavy burden!

Anyway. . . do you consider yourself to be one of those nerdy, introverted, socially awkward, eccentric weirdo girls who would be interested in a guy who thinks the same of himself, or do you know of someone else who would date a guy who fits the nerd profile? Even if you are not the quintessential nerd girl, would you date such a guy? Where should my friend look for girls who potentially would be receptive to his romantic interest?