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It was our 1 month officially being together and i was going to give her air pods with an engraving of “happy 1 month ILY”. for when we were going to go on a trip because she always wanted air pods, but unfortunately she broke up with me, because her parents are going through a divorce, and she’s attached to things she needs to work on alone, and needs time to find herself, she doesn’t want me to be there because she knows things around her are toxic and she didn’t want our relationship to become toxic either because of her environment and didn’t want us to apply what we would see that’s going around she needs a little time. we talked faced to face and she made it clear that “she still loves me, and that i’m the only guy she is attracted to and we could still do couple things, because if she didn’t like me not we wouldn’t be still talking today”. we still talk to this day, we only hang out sometimes, we still hug and lip kiss when we are with each other.

i was planning on taking her to a art museum and giving it to her, i don’t want her to feel bad for breaking up with me because i understand why she did it and it’s neither of our fault, don’t wanna feel like i’m pressuring her for the title while she’s healing mentally. or it’s just in my way of thinking? i need second opinions please!

so 1) i could use some tips for helping me out with getting back together w her or just helpful tips on how you would approach the situation?

and 2) should i give her the gift or not with our “happy one month” engraving

i’ll leave a poll but i still need advice please!

My ex and I have had two very difficult and intense break ups though out the last handful of years, due to our religious differences.
When we first broke up, we were 19 & 18 respectfully. She ended things because she couldn't marry me to her church traditions because I wasn't part of it. She didn't explain it, and shared she thought about it for awhile, but still let me take her family out the night before.
This was followed by her taking out her frustrations on me the one time we interacted after the break up. She claimed injury her and was extremely mean and made hurtful comments about our relationship during that conversation.

Somehow we reconnected 5 months later and dated again. She said she wasn't going to let the religious stuff come between us. She said she always harbored regret and disappointment with herself for how she handled the breakup and conversation.
But she had already committed to a mission, and she did the same thing she had done before. She pushed me away, stopped saying she loved me because she needed to 'detach' for her mission. She said that the pre mission changed her mind and we couldn't be married. Then wouldn't acknowledge what she was doing to me, but still acted like she didn't do any of that. While on her mission, she broke up with me, and tried several times to convert me.
When we confronted each other when she came back, she insisted once more she did absolutely nothing wrong and cast the blame on me for everything.
Was it her mission that makes her feel she did nothing wrong, a d since it was for God and what not, it is ok?