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We had a date set up for December 26 she said she cancelled for a family get together and that she would like to reschedule. I texted her saying it was all good and let me know what date works best for her, she responded later that night by only saying
“I just got home sorry again for rescheduling” to which I replied “no problem just let me know what works for you” no reply then
12 hours later she was on tinder and matched with my cousin and he was messaging pervy shit and she sassily responded to each message. She found out he was my cousin and then messaged me saying she was just fucking with him., and said she still wants to go out with me. This is the last message she sent me Thursday night
“i was genuine to you and messing with him lol like i wanted to actually have conversations with you so i hope that helps. i’m not this wild girl he thinks i am who had sex with everyone she meets 😂 and i have to get up in a few hours for work too i’m so exhausted right now but i can imagine the same for you. we both really need to sleep so i’m going to pass out now since i can barely type anymore so goodnight Ross i’m sorry about the confusion and I hope i can make it up to you!”

I’ve been too persistent with girls in the past and have scared them away. So I figured I would take a step back and allow her too let me know if she wanted a date. I’m a 22 year old guy and never had a girlfriend should I hit her up or just keep waiting?

Often you hear women how they're waiting for the right guy for years to lose virginity with or to have a sex with. For years they're rejecting guys and telling them stories about love, compatibility, mutual respect and other other sugared stories which you can see in movies or in your favorite romance book. For years they're going on dates and torture their dates for weeks or months before anything sexual happens, if it happens. But usually it doesn't.

But what happens in reality? Finally they lose virginity to a guy who they met on first night - usually some party or similar social event happening in night time. Usually they do it with a super hot guy, who bangs girls for a hobby, in a sports manner, and in most cases without any protection and on a weird place like toilette, in a car on parking lot, basement etc... If you asked a girl what happened, she would tell you that "she felt connected with", "liked him", "she thought it was a start of relationship", "it just happened..." and similar stories, that apparently didn't apply to any date before. However, if you ask guy what happened, he would tell you that he met a girl, they did some chit chat, drank something and then they had fu*ked. Just another virgin to devirginate, or just another woman to bang, just another day in the office.

Conclusion: most women wait for a guy, who is hot enough, to fuc* them. All the stories they tell about love and relationships are pure BS.