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So me and this guy have been flirting for a while now, have kissed numerous times both in private and out in public and have has sex once. We haven't had a conversation as to what we are and now I'm starting to think maybe he just wanted to sleep with me, but I think I'm starting to fall for him.
I don't know whether I should cut off all contact with him just so I don't get hurt or go with the flow and see where it leads.
I got dumped earlier this year so I'm not sure how to be single so I'm freaking out!
This guy is so sweet and literally makes me feel wanted and sexy but he has a reputation as a "pump and dump" kind of guy. I don't know if his body language towards me is an indicator of how he feels about me as he always touches me, looks me in the eyes when we talk and when we were having sex he kept looking into my eyes and smiling. However he has never really paid me a compliment other than "I like the view" when I was bending over one day and the occasional comment on my hair when I've had it done.
Am I reading too much into this? I'm worried I'm going to get hurt again so really don't know what to do.

So me and this guy have been friends for a year, flirting for just over 2 months, having the odd make out session and we have slept together once. It wasn't fantastic as he came across really nervous but it doesn't bother me. I have seen him once after we slept together and we seemed how we usually are, however I haven't really spoken to him much since. We used to work together but he got moved to another location within the company so we don't see each other much but we text very occasionally. I really like him but I'm worried I will never see him again so I'm wondering whether I should ask him to meet up for a drink or something or will I come across as desperate and clingy?
I don't want to scare him away and the fear of rejection is literally eating me up inside! I'm so unsure what he actually wants from me and I'm worried he may have just wanted sex.

My friend and I have turned from good friends to best friends within the last year. But, things seem different from about Christmas of last year. He's always bringing up the fact that I don't give head (long story about why I don't) and we're always talking about sexual preferences (to which he always says he likes when girls make the first move). He remembers little things that some of my best girl friends dont even remember, sent me a picture of strip cards against humanity rules, and saves me from guys at the bar by pretending to be my boyfriend. We were in random conversation one time and asked if that thing from how i met my your mother (where a guy gets naked and waits on your bed for you) would work on me. There are other examples but that's what I can think of off the top of my head. I don't know what do you guys think? We were friends freshman year through junior year but got a lot closer senior year (correlating with the fact that I got better looking, is the only weird part about that). This all could be a coincidence and me looking too much into it but I'd rather know before I sleep over his house again after a party and not think anything of it when he wakes up in just his underwear the next morning. (but I guess sleeping in jeans sucks right?)

Sincerely,
Confused.