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2 months ago, I got in contact with a crush I knew in the 7th grade (I'm in the 11th grade rn). She rejected me at that time. We don't stay around each other in person and we don't know where each other lives. But the first month we started talking over instagram, she says she remembers everything about me. More than I remembered about her. We texted, sent voice messages, called each other, laughed at stuff I said, and she tells me that she regrets ignoring me in middle school. Her and I have so much in common and we used to get flirty and talked about nsfw stuff. We're both introverts and we get really shy around the opposite gender. She even called me 'hun' after a compliment. We even talked about how we both got bullied sometimes and I would always push her to not give up on herself. Then she told me about how she only has 2 female friends and like 10 guy friends (including an ex) due to being slut shamed. Then she started getting more quiet. She even ignores my messages while she's deadass online 24/7. I honestly think she talks to other boys and maybe our flame died out.
Recently she ghosted me all last week and still today. Then she casually replies to me messages saying 'good morning' and 'i just need time to myself' and then goes quiet again rn. Not even considering me. I think my love for her is growing too fast.
How can I do this as well? I've gotten advice from my friends and the internet on how to move on from a girl, except im not actually moving on. I'm trying to worry more on myself until she replies to me. I don't know if she's really taking time to herself, talking to other guys, or playing hard to get (which is really unlike her), but I wanna be as thoughtless as her right now to avoid becoming desperate.

How do I learn this emotionless ghosting power?

I’ve been seeing this girl Chantel for just over a month. Chantel has made me really happy. She cooks for me everyday after work, massages me before bed, drove me around when my car failed, and offered to buy me a laptop 💻 if I go back to school. Chantel does a lot for me and always wants me at her house. We spend almost everyday day together. She even told her dad about me. Which she claims she hasn’t told her dad about anyone in years.

Things are going good, but. There’s a major issue. Her best friend is this guy named Godfrey. I don’t care if my girlfriend has male friends. But it’s just awkward when they’re super close.

Chantel n Godfrey have spent lots of time together in the past. She always talks about him and even calls/texts him often. She asked me if her relationship with Godfrey worries me. I didn’t respond because I think it’s too early in the relationship to talk about other guys. When I didn’t respond she said “you don’t have to worry about him. I’m not even attracted to him”. Since then, she’s hasn’t mentioned Godfrey as much.

About a week ago we went to a party at Godfreys and his friend made a joke about Godfrey smashing Chantel before we dated. Even Chantels own friends ask her if she’s ever had sex with Godfrey.

What’s makes me even more uncomfortable is that the she’s moving into the same apartment building as Godfrey. She said that’s the only place available rn. And that it’s just temporary. She gave me an extra set of keys and told I can come over whenever I want. I’m moving back home with my parents if I go back to school. She wants me to move in with her instead.

I like the my relationship with Chantel but her guy friend makes me very uncomfortable. I don't know if I break up immediately or give it some time.