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My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now. We are living together and everything has been great. We were talking about movie stars that we fancy and what not... And the curious side got the best of me. So I asked if he checks anyone else out. He told me 5 girls he sees on campus. They have big hips, big boobs, big asses, and a flat tummy. I have all of that except the flat tummy. My stomach is anything but flat. I got really hurt and very self conscious about it... I know I asked but I didn't know what to expect. So should I be worried or am I too jealous?

Im not saying that the attention is necessarily bad or good. Im just asking who is responsible for it. I know personally I dont like it.

So lets say there's this really attractive woman, and she's walking down the street, she's wearing a nice body con or tight fitting outfit, whos fault is it that she's getting stared at?
Does it matter what she's wearing? Like if she's wearing something modest, is it less her fault, more his? If she's wearing something completely modest (like a t shirt and sweatpants), is it less her fault?
Does it depend on how much she's wearing? Does her body type matter? Does her attractiveness matter? Like if she has big boobs, should she be mindful of the fact that men will stare and dress them down?
And yes, you can still be checked out in a tshirt and joggers lol It doesn't happen as much, but it does happen.

**OMG, time for the misogyny/misandry, ok peeps. I recognize that men get oggled too. HOWEVER i feel that its mostly a woman's issue. Hence, why Im using the gender pronouns. Its kinda like if I were asking about asking people out or paying for dates, I'd use "he" more than she because although yes, women do ask men out and pay for dates, most of those woes are held by men as they are largely the ones affected by it. So please dont get offended, but if you do, sorry but im not sorry :)

Should I wear my jacket over my shirt?
what if he doesn't like big busted girls...