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My boyfriend friend is having his birthday at a party place/club. My boyfriend doesn't want me to go with him because he said "why would i go with my girlfriend to a club". I find that a bit weird personally, because whats wrong with going with your girlfriend?
Just want some boy's/men's view on this.

So i met this girl at a Meet up group where meet to network. We hit it off well to where she pursued texting me everyday and wanted to see me a lot soon after which was odd to me. She invited me and others to a meet up event that happened this past weekend. 2 other girls with us and we were chillin having a good time for hrs until she decides to invite her boyfriend out w/his friends which caused us to have to go to another spot bc it was too crowded for extra people. fast forward, me, her, her boyfriend and his friends end up going to a strip club later that night and i met up with them later after they been there for like 10 minutes. She looked like she was ready to go and said to me that she was gonna go outside and get some fresh air. So that told me she will be right back, not to go with her. She was gone too long, went to look for her and she texted saying she passed out on the way out and mad that i wasn't with her, but (she never said to come with her). i texted her that she didn't ask me to go and she ignored and i later told her boyfriend what was going on and he agreed that she gets like that and dont worry. So we had to leave bc she was outside in her car like a crazy person. We walked up to her and she is looking moody and irritated and im just so confused on what just happened. Anyways, that morning she sent me tons of text msgs saying i should have come with her when she asked me (she never asked me, she just said im going to get some fresh and walked away fast) Then said she can't believe i asked her boyfriend why she is acting like this and that that was embarrassing and that she dont trust me around him, like crazy stuff that made no sense she got mad over. I barely know this girl and she did a complete 180 on me. I never said nothing bad about her to her boyfriend.

So i ignored all those text messages she sent me trippin over nothing. i swear she is bipolar. my friend thinks i should go back to talking to her. Would you? This is so small to me

A few nights ago I went clubbing and saw a good looking guy. I sat down and had a drinks with him and halfway through I realized this was a guy my boyfriend hated but he was so hot I couldn't resist I left and was too drunk to go home and realized I had a housekey to my boyfriend's house so I went with him and let us in and we were on the couch about to have sex and the guy said" No let's **** in your boyfriend's bed I agreed and we went. We were having sex and I heard the door opened and realized I made a huge mistake. My boyfriend called my name I tried to hide my boy toy but he pulled me and kissed me on the bed. My boyfriend came into the room and demanded to know what was going on. I hide behind the guy and he got bold and said" I tripped and my **** landed in your girlfriend sorry." My boyfriend was pisssed and hit the guy but he was drunk and uncoordinated and he got beat up. After the guy left I teased my boyfriend and said' It sucks to be you right now' like Beyonce in the video. He asked why I did what I did and I repeated the joke from earlier. He got pissed he cursed me out and called me a **** and ****. I was so hur he'd say mean things like that o me that I punched him in his face which isn't bad because I am a woman and he is a man he can take it anyway. He said stop it but I hit hm again out of anger then he said " ***** hit me one more tima and i'm kicking your ***". Out of curiosity I spit in his face and kneed him in his balls I think it's hilarious when guys get hit there. Well he got up and I saw the evil look in his eyes he tackled me and punched me in my face about 15 times then threw me out the house naked he didn't even let me get dressed. He turned the sprinklers on and I was so so cold I threw up. He hasn't apoligized and he's been on twitter and facebook telling everyone what happened and turns everything around on me. I didn't mean it I was drunk he didn't mention that I love him with all my heart please help me how do I get him back?