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I have been speaking with someone from an app for maybe two weeks. Last week, we spoke on the phone for a few hours. We have been texting & everything seemed to be going fine. There’s a few red flags: he’s eager to meet up & I want to push back because of COVID, he’s already mentioned his plans to want to settle down later on and have a family & he called me pet names earlier in the game but I cut that out real quick. Considering we are only in the talking phase,

I was in a beach condo until yesterday for my birthday and the last I heard from him was Monday. He texted me happy birthday Monday morning, I replied in the noon & he left me a voicemail Monday evening. I did not call him back, I haven’t heard from Him since, I see he’s clearly been viewing my IG stories. I’ve been posting & indicated that I am back home in my stories, he views but has not reached out to me personally. Yes, I did not return his missed call but if he was really interested, he would have checked in by now. It’s been 2 days but if you really like someone you’d be a bit more persistent. I followed up with him yesterday, look at our text communication (I’m green he’s grey).

This is the last time I will ask this, I have been speaking with someone from an app for maybe two weeks. Last week, we spoke on the phone for a few hours. We have been texting & everything seemed to be going fine. There’s a few red flags: he’s eager to meet up & I want to push back because of COVID, he’s already mentioned his plans to want to settle down later on and have a family & he called me pet names earlier in the game but I cut that out real quick. Considering we are only in the talking phase, I was in a beach condo until today for my birthday and the last I heard from him was Monday. He texted me happy birthday Monday morning, I replied in the noon & he left me a voicemail Monday evening. I did not call him back, I haven’t heard from Him since, I see he’s clearly been viewing my IG stories. I’ve been posting & indicated that I am back home in my stories, he views but has not reached out to me personally. Yes, I did not return his missed call but if he was really interested, he would have checked in by now. It’s been 2 days but if you really like someone you’d be a bit more persistent.

I have been speaking with someone from an app for maybe two weeks. Last week, we spoke on the phone for a few hours. We have been texting & everything seemed to be going fine. There’s a few red flags: he’s eager to meet up & I want to push back because of COVID, he’s already mentioned his plans to want to settle down later on and have a family & he called me pet names earlier but I cut that out real quick. Considering we are only in the talking phase, I am currently in a beach condo until today for my birthday and the last I heard from him was Monday. He texted me happy birthday Monday morning, I replied in the noon & he left me a voicemail Monday evening. I did not call him back, I haven’t heard from Him since, I see he’s clearly been viewing my IG stories.

I have been speaking with someone from an app for maybe two weeks. Last week, we spoke on the phone for a few hours. We have been texting & everything seemed to be going fine. There’s a few red flags: he’s eager to meet up & I want to push back because of COVID, he’s already mentioned his plans to want to settle down later on and have a family & he called me pet names before but I cut that out real quick. Considering we are only in the talking phase, I am currently in a beach condo until tomorrow for my birthday and the last I heard from him was yesterday. He texted me happy birthday yesterday morning, I replied in the noon & he left me a voicemail yesterday evening. I haven’t heard from Him since, I see he’s clearly been viewing my IG stories.

I have been speaking with someone from a dating app for maybe two weeks. Last week, we spoke on the phone for a few hours. We have been texting & everything seemed to be going fine. There’s a few red flags: he’s eager to meet up & I want to push back because of COVID, he’s already mentioned his plans to want to settle down later on and have a family & he called me pet names before but I cut that out real quick. Considering we are only in the talking phase, I am currently in a beach condo until tomorrow for my birthday and the last I heard from him was yesterday. He texted me happy birthday yesterday morning, I replied in the noon & he left me a voicemail yesterday evening. I haven’t heard from Him since, I see he’s clearly been viewing my IG stories.

So I’ve been speaking to someone I met off tinder for maybe 2 weeks. At first I didn’t care for him but I like him quite a bit now. We have spoken on the phone for a few hours and I know he’s eager to meet up. I brought up a disclaimer previously that I want to delay meeting up due to covid. And he understood, I think he was a bit disappointed. We spoke yesterday and I mentioned it again and he said again that he gets it but he doesn’t want to have to wait too long. He stated that he wants to find a girlfriend and it doesn’t help having to only speak virtually. He mentioned his father is ill and wants to settle down, in order for his father to be alive in order to see him walk down the isle. I would at least like to meet him beginning of next year but I don't know how covid will be looking by that time. It sucks, I’m not even sure if he can wait that long. I am stern about wanting to wait and he’s more of a “life is too short, I don’t want covid to hold me back anymore” person. He texted me happy birthday yesterday morning and I replied yesterday afternoon. I have not heard from him since last night, we spoke a few hours last week, he apparently has an intensive job but typically takes 3-4 hours to reply during the weekdays. He left a voicemail last night, but did not reach out till like 8 hours later. I texted him at noon yesterday & he left the voicemail last night. I plan to play it off like I never got the voicemail if he reaches out again. Suggestions/opinions?

So I’ve been speaking to someone I met off tinder for maybe 2 weeks. At first I didn’t care for him but I like him quite a bit now. We have spoken on the phone for a few hours and I know he’s eager to meet up. I brought up a disclaimer previously that I want to delay meeting up due to covid. And he understood, I think he was a bit disappointed. We spoke yesterday and I mentioned it again and he said again that he gets it but he doesn’t want to have to wait too long. He stated that he wants to find a girlfriend and it doesn’t help having to only speak virtually. He mentioned his father is ill and wants to settle down, in order for his father to be alive in order to see him walk down the isle. I would at least like to meet him beginning of next year but I don't know how covid will be looking by that time. It sucks, I’m not even sure if he can wait that long. I am stern about wanting to wait and he’s more of a “life is too short, I don’t want covid to hold me back anymore” person. He texted me happy birthday this morning and I replied this afternoon. I have not heard from him since, we spoke a few hours this week, he apparently has an intensive job but typically takes 3-4 hours to reply during the weekdays. Suggestions/opinions?

So I’ve been speaking to someone I met off tinder for maybe 2 weeks. At first I didn’t care for him but I like him quite a bit now. We have spoken on the phone for a few hours and I know he’s eager to meet up. I brought up a disclaimer previously that I want to delay meeting up due to covid. And he understood, I think he was a bit disappointed. We spoke yesterday and I mentioned it again and he said again that he gets it but he doesn’t want to have to wait too long. He stated that he wants to find a girlfriend and it doesn’t help having to only speak virtually. He mentioned his father is ill and wants to settle down, in order for his father to be alive in order to see him walk down the isle. I would at least like to meet him beginning of next year but I don't know how covid will be looking by that time. It sucks, I’m not even sure if he can wait that long. I am stern about wanting to wait and he’s more of a “life is too short, I don’t want covid to hold me back anymore” person. Suggestions or opinions?

The guy I been with is scared to settle down, he’s made it clear he’s not ready to have kids or get married in the next 2-3 years. Unfortunately I’m different... I’m prepared and ready.
Recently my ex from 3 years ago reached out today and said something crazy. We been talking everyday since he’s honestly my best friend of 9 years. And said “I want you as my girlfriend officially, no Never mind I want you as my wife right now”
( back story - we broke up 2 years ago and 3-4 years after being together we got used to each other and became toxic and unhealthy and violent like anger issues. We’ve grown, I still love him but I grew to love the man I am with now. Basically I’m asking for advice from you guys for help as a friend. Not to get trashed on I just don’t have that friend to talk to. Please and thank you. Have a good night or morning wherever your at.