Being Cocky Attracts Women-How to Do It CORRECTLY

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Being Cocky Attracts Women-How to Do It CORRECTLY

If you ask a woman if she likes "cocky" guys. About 99% of them will tell you they don't. Then they will wrinkle their nose and say its a turn off. I used to be that nice guy for decades. It made me best friend material. Was a virgin for 27 years. I call bullshit on that.

Women think that being cocky means a guy is an asshole. That is also a myth. There is a difference between and asshole and a cocky guy. The cocky guy is charming, full of wit, funny. The asshole is rude and obnoxious. Be the cocky guy.

It's funny. Last week I had a girl actually yell at me over text after meeting her on a dating site. She kept shit testing me trying to get me to apologize for being cocky. She was playing up a storm about how she was turned off. haha. Guys...Emotion=Caring=Attraction. I didn't apologize and bluntly stated "Yeah. I am cocky sometimes. I don't apologize for it." A few days later we were having sex. Why? Because a real man is authentic. Not a wimpy suck up. She was attracted to me not apologizing for who I am.

So...how do you be playful and cocky?

If a girl accuses you of being a ladies man? "Yep. That's me! Maybe you might be the one to settle me down?"

She accuses you of saying that to all the ladies? "Only the first 20,000 girls. After that I switch it up."

She says you are just looking for sex? "Of course I am looking for sex. But I want something more. Do you think you can offer a man more than just sex?"

She says you are a player? "Well baby, that's because I haven't met you yet."

Do you see a pattern here? You are cocky. You dont apologize. You fully accept and embrace her label of you but return with something clever that will make her feel unique or special.

Do likewise gentleman. Master this and she will be HOOKED.

Examples: Hank Moody in the show "Californication". Or Don Draper in 'Mad Men'.

Being Cocky Attracts Women-How to Do It CORRECTLY
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