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People say we look good together.
He does good things to me like cooking, taking me to mountains, makes effort to text and see me, teach me driving, dropping me at home, showing me to his friends saying I am rich, hugs me a lot, gave me a good sex. However, he also does bad things like asking me to clean his house, wash his underwear, pay in restaurant, buy him food, borrowing half money for his rent. He was forcing me also to open business, have a bank loan and loan for motorbike.

However time comes when the business did not smooth and I always reject him making bank loan for business. The motorbike was unfortunately stolen. My parents don’t like him too. And, I also lose my job unable to help him with his financial needs (rent and food).

He started to be distant and cold to me. He rarely spend time and even rejecting sex. He told me that I don’t care about him like giving money for his rent, his hospitalization and I can’t cook well and clean the house.

After few months I found out he cheated on me and I got mad to his other woman. He got mad to me and said We are done. I already get what I want in a girlfriend. You don’t own me. It’s your fault because cannot take care of me enough.

I was unfortunate enough to be cheated on recently by my husband. He had sex repeatedly with a woman who was having a cold sore outbreak. He thought cold sores were just sores from having a cold. His affair managed to infect me with the cold sore virus on my privates, and it was VERY unpleasant.

In my research, I have learned that around 60-80% of people in the world (and in the United States) have the cold sore virus even if they do not know it. 20% of people have the better known genital herpes virus, and almost 50% will have that strain by the time they are 50 years old. It's one of the top causes of virus related blindness in the U. S. Most people catch it while they are still babies and sticking everything in their mouths and sharing toys and food.

With so many people infected, I find it strange that I am only hearing all of this after being infected. How can something so common be such a secret? How many people suffer with on or more of these issues? Honestly, I'm very scared. I know I'm not the only one. Please, share information and your personal experiences so people like me can better understand.

I never know about sociopath/narcissist until someone told me that he is. Someone told me that he is making me like a supply. And so I read about them and surprised he seem like to be. Now I want to list down his characteristics if he is a real sociopath/narcissist?

- He got mad if I don’t follow his request and insulting me a lot like cheap, dumb, useless
- He ask me to serve him a lot like cooking for him, washing his underwear, massaging him and cleaning his house even if I am the visitor.
- I talk to some of his exes and all of them complained him of cheating
- I caught him cheating more than 5 times and even sleeping of those girls
- He always ask money from me to buy something or in a restaurant but he never let me borrow even a peso.
- He got mad when I hold his hand in public or if I become affectionate in public
- He beaten me up but only once. And whenever we fight he always say bad words or curse words
- He got mad if I don’t serve him with foods or even clean his own mess
- He ask me to pay for gasoline, load, facial, food.
- He is so selfish if I connect to his data WiFi or even ask for a perfume. He always says no
- He is affectionate and wants sex but after that he begins to reject me or making me feel worthless.
- He lies a lot and don’t want to admit his mistakes
- he blames me for everything when clearly it is his mistakes