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I think it has been and always will be women. And I still don't think the number of guys out there who are sad about not having a girlfriend really match, and not even the ones on GaG like I'm sure some are going to point out.

Today I'm seeing some of my female friends who are single or "just dating" posting stuff on Facebook that's about Valentine's Day being every day, or trying to post a bunch of random stuff to distract from it when some of them do not even really post that often.

Right now I'm single and not particularly trying to get into a relationship and I'm good with that. Only thing I can honestly say I'm really interested in is just having a sex partner, and I've even been lazy about pursuing that with how exhausted I feel by the time the weekend comes. So I try to take the easy way out by looking for hook ups online lol. There is a woman in an 'open marriage' who is open to sleeping with me but I just can't do it lol.

Anyway, what do you think? Are women bothered more by being single? Or men?

I am 25 years old, and for the past several years, I have been in the lowest point of my life.

I have no credible talents. I still live at home, and I am on disability. I only receive $850 a month from social security after medicare deductions. Once I turn 26, I will lose my parents' insurance.

I have never had a girlfriend. I am really short for a male, with a height of 5'6. I have failed when it comes to women. I was even arrested for stalking for trying to win a girl's heart. It is a long story. I now have a criminal record for stalking and harassment.

I am terrible with women. In addition, I cannot get over a woman's romantic past. Any romantic bonds she had during her youth, whether that be college, high school, or middle school, I cannot get over. If I meet a woman now, I can never say we knew each other during our youth. Meanwhile, I have friends (and even my parents) that can say they are with someone they loved from when they were young.

I am in university right now for web app development, but most people don't need a college education for that.

I cannot seem to get any jobs or internships in the field that I am pursuing, and I have been studying and coding for 3 years now. I feel I have nothing to really show for it still.

I am having second thoughts whether this field is right for me. I don't know exactly what is right for me anymore.

I used to be an EMT, but I had to voluntarily surrender my license due to my criminal convictions.

I have only had sex with one woman in my life, but it was pity sex with a high school girl. Both virgins. She was 16; I was 20. That is the best I was able to get with an attractive girl.

I am 25 and never had an actual girlfriend. I seek the following:

1. A woman who is decently attractive
2. A woman that is NOT black
3. A woman who has never had a romantic past, meaning no previous boyfriends or even male best friends whom she had feelings for/close to romantically from her youth.

I am trying online dating yet again.