Hello,
I would like a sincere opinion about this guy.
He claims to be my boyfriend and to love me, but he NEVER takes me out.
It happened twice in six months. First time because it was our first date, second time because I busted in to tears in front of him saying “I am done with people that don’t care about me”.
We see each other a lot, even if we both have a group of friends.
Every time I ask him to go out and/or to do something he comes up with an excuse, like “bed is comfy” “I don’t want to put my pants on” “Tired” “Playing video games”
He sometimes ask me to join him with his friends, but that’s not a date.
He decided to take me out for Valentines and damn, if I was excited. Then he decided that he actually didn’t want to.
Then he decided to tell me no to another night out, he asked me to help him clean his room on a Sunday instead of going out (my only day off from work).
Yesterday a girl that I’ve never heard of (apparently a friend) ask him out for a museum and he said yes.
When with me it would have been like “ough, but it’s the weekend, there are a lot of people” “I don’t like crowds”.
I know 100% that this girls doesn’t know that I exist, because he doesn’t tell anybody that he has a girlfriend. Only his two bros know me.
I am hurting like crazy today, and I was wondering if I could get a man eye on this. He said that I am jealous and emotional, but honestly I just feel like a conveniente piece of meat, that sometimes cooks and help him out.
I don’t feel appreciate. Some of my friends told me that man do not get those kind of stuff and that I should talk to him, but I feel like a person in love should care more.
He never got me a present, not even for Christmas. Because he says that he needs to be inspired. Then he went in an expensive chocolate place and got chocolate for this woman, but not for me.
I just have a lot of doubts and I would like an honest opinion on this.
I would like a sincere opinion about this guy.
He claims to be my boyfriend and to love me, but he NEVER takes me out.
It happened twice in six months. First time because it was our first date, second time because I busted in to tears in front of him saying “I am done with people that don’t care about me”.
We see each other a lot, even if we both have a group of friends.
Every time I ask him to go out and/or to do something he comes up with an excuse, like “bed is comfy” “I don’t want to put my pants on” “Tired” “Playing video games”
He sometimes ask me to join him with his friends, but that’s not a date.
He decided to take me out for Valentines and damn, if I was excited. Then he decided that he actually didn’t want to.
Then he decided to tell me no to another night out, he asked me to help him clean his room on a Sunday instead of going out (my only day off from work).
Yesterday a girl that I’ve never heard of (apparently a friend) ask him out for a museum and he said yes.
When with me it would have been like “ough, but it’s the weekend, there are a lot of people” “I don’t like crowds”.
I know 100% that this girls doesn’t know that I exist, because he doesn’t tell anybody that he has a girlfriend. Only his two bros know me.
I am hurting like crazy today, and I was wondering if I could get a man eye on this. He said that I am jealous and emotional, but honestly I just feel like a conveniente piece of meat, that sometimes cooks and help him out.
I don’t feel appreciate. Some of my friends told me that man do not get those kind of stuff and that I should talk to him, but I feel like a person in love should care more.
He never got me a present, not even for Christmas. Because he says that he needs to be inspired. Then he went in an expensive chocolate place and got chocolate for this woman, but not for me.
I just have a lot of doubts and I would like an honest opinion on this.
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