My boyfriend doesn't want to spend time with me?

[Anonymous]

He is not in his bad mood because of financial and health issues. He cried on Saturday he told me... same Saturday he got so drunk he can't remember what happened

So he is kinda moody and depressed

I asked why will we meet since its been a week i slept at his house

He said he is not feeling well and that we will meet soon... right ok...

His friend, he didn't see since December invited him for a beer this Saturday... also on Sunday he will go visit another friend who in the hospital

This Friday he meets with other 3 friends to watch football

So, my question is:why its time for beer with friends but no time for me?

Why he is in bad mood he doesn't want to spend time with me?

When i asked if i can come to watch football with him he said:"it will be guys night, we will get drunk and watch football. If there were another women then you could come... yeah"

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[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you're feeling hurt and frustrated that your boyfriend doesn't seem to want to spend time with you right now. However, it's important to remember that everyone has their own unique needs and priorities, and that it's okay to prioritize your own well-being and happiness.

It's possible that your boyfriend is going through a difficult time right now, and that his mood and behavior are a reflection of that. It's also possible that he may not be able to give you the attention and affection you need at this time, and that it's best to take a step back and prioritize your own needs and boundaries.

If you're feeling unsure about where you stand in the relationship, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about your feelings and concerns. It's important to communicate your needs and expectations clearly, while also being respectful of his own needs and boundaries.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what you're willing to tolerate in a relationship and what you need in order to feel happy and fulfilled. It's okay to set boundaries and to make decisions that prioritize your own well-being and happiness.

If you're interested in having a conversation with your boyfriend about your feelings and concerns, here are a few things you could say:

1. "Hey, I wanted to talk to you about how I've been feeling lately. I feel like we haven't been spending as much time together, and I'm wondering if there's something going on."

2. "I understand that you're going through a difficult time right now, but I also need to prioritize my own needs and boundaries. Can we talk about how we can support each other while also taking care of ourselves?"

3. "I feel hurt and frustrated that you're willing to make time for your friends, but not for me. Can we talk about why that is and how we can work on our relationship together?"

Remember to communicate your thoughts and feelings in a calm and respectful manner, and to listen actively to the other person's perspective. It's important to prioritize your own needs and boundaries, while also being open to compromise and understanding. It may take time and effort to work through these issues, but with patience and communication, it is possible to strengthen your relationship and build a more fulfilling future together.

[Asker]

So i went home... he has been texting me for like 2 hours , we were talking by voice messages.
So when i got home, he sent me first voice messages i didn't see, then he sent me a "are you ok?" text
I saw it and said "yeah im good, was talking to my mom. Now ill listen to your voice."
When i listen the first voice, he says he is worried since i was driving a car and if i got home safe... and in the end he said"well i hope you have great night... kisses... if you dont wanna talk... kisses for you ok"
So i heard it and said:"Its all good, yeah lets talk, not going to sleep yet"
Then we started sending messages and one of his voices he says"sorry im bombarding you with so many messages... its just I wanted to talk to you. We have really good relationship. Thank you, Its amazing"

Here i got abit confused in a sense... uhmm who thanks for having a relation ship? its kinda strange, isn't it?
Or can you explain it to me?
Like is it normal for a man to say thank you for their relationship? is it common?
Like what does it mean...🙄

[Asker]

Hello?

[Asker]

Could you analise his behaviour l explained? thnx

[Opinion Owner]

Hi sorry for my late response. I had a few problems the past 2-3 days:

Now, It's not necessarily common for someone to thank their partner for being in a relationship, but it's also not necessarily a bad thing. It's possible that your boyfriend is expressing gratitude for the connection and intimacy that you share, and is acknowledging that he values your relationship. It's also possible that he is feeling vulnerable or emotional, and is expressing his feelings in a somewhat awkward or unconventional way.

Without knowing more about your relationship and your boyfriend's personality and communication style, it's difficult to say for certain what his message means. However, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with each other, and to make sure that you are both on the same page about your feelings and expectations. If you're confused or concerned about something he said, it's okay to ask for clarification or to express your own feelings in response.

[Asker]

My boyfriend is one nice piece... every week i come here on gag to ask questions about his behaviour or his words
He didn't say love you... he said thank you
Why? he treats me as his servant? an i giving him a service i his eyes?

[Asker]

*in his

[Opinion Owner]

It's not necessarily fair to assume that your boyfriend is treating you as a servant just because he expressed gratitude with a "thank you" instead of saying "I love you." People express their emotions differently, and it's possible that he simply felt grateful for something you did for him and wanted to express that gratitude.

It's important to remember that communication is key in any relationship. If you're feeling uncertain about where you stand with him or if you're not feeling appreciated or loved, then it's important to talk to him about your feelings. It's possible that he's unaware of how his actions are making you feel, or he may have a different way of expressing love and affection.

It's important to approach the conversation with an open mind and a willingness to listen to his perspective as well. Try to have a calm and honest conversation about how you're feeling and what you need from him in terms of emotional support and validation.

[abc3643]

By "football", do you mean "football" or "soccer".
If you mean "soccer", then he has to go.

[Asker]

Soccer... he is English... his team plays😒

[Asker]

Why he HASto go?