My boyfriend doesn't hang out with me?

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Its been 6 months in the relationship and my boyfriend dosent hang out with me alone.. according to him he dosent go alone with anyone because he finds it boring. i am soo heartbroken that we both dosent get time alone.. how can he get bored with his gf? I am unable to get anything?

EmpatheticLady · Accepted Answer

Welp, if that were me, I'd break up with him if you can't figure out a solution quickly. Of course, it's nice to go out with friends and family members here and there, but he shouldn't be bored to be just around you all the time. I mean, sure, things can get boring with couples, but if he's constantly bored when it's just you and him, there's something wrong. I wouldn't want to be with someone that couldn't enjoy my company. Have you tried asking him to go out to dinner, to movies, to different events in your area, to play video games if he's into them, etc? Is he not interested in any of that?

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

If your being neglected, then just end it. Don't do like how my close friend did nearly 3x with 3 different boyfriends that were short term. They were so focused on what they wanted to do but neglected to do the things she wanted. She ended it before 4 months. If he's busy then fine. But there has to be balanced, and nobody wants to end up in an insecure place like he's doing to you. That's not fair. If it's so boring then why is he in a relationship with you in the first place. That's selfish of him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That's not something that will change. Either adapt to the situation or move on. I doubt you can make him compromise

SteamBuns · Accepted Answer

He's afraid their will be awkward silence if its just the two of you... He may not be a very social person, which means he finds it difficult to maintain a healthy conversation... so the more people the merrier for him.

Dude_91 · Accepted Answer

that is weird. break up with him. I would like to spend time alone with my girl

bostockbn · Answer

Maybe he's scared to be alone with just one person? My mom used to be that way when she was my age. She was rapped form being in diapers until 13 years old.. she was afraid that she get touched again.. but you need to find out if anything has happened to make him feel that way and if nothing legit comes up end it girl

SarahsSummer · Answer

That the most absurd thing I've read on here all day. Your boyfriend has issues. You dont just stay in and watch a movie together or go out to a movie or eat dinner together? It needs to be a group production? Thats not normal AT ALL!

Lelaila · Answer

Well, it doesn't sound like a relationship to me. When you love eachother, you want to spend time with that other person. Sounds like he wants to break up.

Anonymous · Answer

I would just end the relationship and not see him anymore. Part of being a good boyfriend is being a good FRIEND. if your friend never wanted to spend time with you and always told you flat out that you were too boring to be around, well are they really much of a friend? so drop this guy.

GabrielRose · Answer

Ask him to try spending time with you alone or sit him down and say its an unhealthy relationship and why?

Anonymous · Answer

I think he seems like the wrong guy for you. If he is saying stuff like that he seems like a bit of a douche. Either try and talk to him about it or find someone who treats you better!

Anonymous · Answer

To me that is strange that a guy wouldn't want to hang out with just his girlfriend. I would say deal with it and maybe he'll come around or move on.

Tileguy0723 · Answer

Yeah that's not right... a healthy couple needs alone time. Even if it's just dinner & great conversation

whitefang135 · Answer

I'd say break up with him unless that's just how he is with anyone and not just you. Some people are just weird like that, but if you're the only one he does that to, then that's a red flag.

Girlimboredrn · Answer

Dump him, he's showing an obvious sign he might be no longer interested. Sorry hun

April10 · Answer

Yeah no. Time to break up. You should be the person he wants to spend all his time with.

vomitxx · Answer

time to break up with him, he shouldn't be doing that

Anonymous · Answer

I wonder what he will do when you marry. He is just finding an excuse

ajaxxx · Answer

chill babe all wll be ok

Anonymous · Answer

looks like ur not marriage material, or he isn't sexually attracted to you.

pooper89 · Answer

That's not a relationship

Anonymous · Answer

find someone that will

veroniquees · Answer

dump his ass

Anonymous · Answer

Dump him

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