I’ve been dating a guy off and on now for five years total. Its been pretty consistent the past 2-3 years. We broke up once during the three years but have been together consistently for two. Before that we were friends, hung out, had sex but no commitment then it turned into a relationship. He had me over with him to his families for Thanksgiving. He asked me to his birthday party that was on December 26. I said I couldn’t go because I had family plans but then my family plans changed and six days prior to his birthday I reached out I called him I left a voicemail he didn’t respond I texted him I even Facebook messaged him. I didn’t get a little angry with him for not calling back and texting back. I was already upset with him for not wanting to be with me for New Year’s Eve. He told me he wasn’t sure what he wanted to do if he wanted to come back home and be alone or stay and be with his family and his family invited me to be with them the whole week so I said well why can’t we be together if it’s with your family or if you come back to our town where we live. He’s very introverted and he doesn’t like being around a lot of people and he gets strange and so he said that’s a reason why but it still just doesn’t make sense to me and it hurts me. I’m really considering breaking up with him for good as this is the straw on the camels back it’s not this one incident but it just signifies to me more and more I’m not a priority as he doesn’t want to be with his girlfriend on New Year’s eve you’re supposed to be with the one you love. We got into an argument at Thanksgiving because he hadn’t told me I am beautiful in a long time but he has affirmed other women’s beauty here and there nothing disrespectful like I love her ass or anything but he hasn’t told me I’m gorgeous and affirmed his desire for me. We got an argument he yelled at me and was very disrespectful and said I was crazy and made me feel really bad and I felt so bad I froze up and couldn’t talk or think.
Boyfriend does not want to be with me for New Year’s Eve?
