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One of the reasons men get so angry over the friendzone is not because we lost our opportunity to be more than friends. Rejection burns but that is just a fact of life for more most men. Dating is like being a door to door salesman to us. Its up to us to make it happen and if we get a no then we want to move on ASAP until we eventually hear a yes. The disinterested girl is now just a liability if we continue to waste our time and energy on her.

Anyway the real reason we get angry about the friendzone is we feel like our masculinity isn’t being respected. Respecting a man surely doesn’t mean dating him, having sex and/or getting a relationship. Its understanding his gamble he took a (likely uncomfortably) by approaching you. It’s now your turn to be forthcoming about where you stand. It need to be done sooner than later.

Confidently assuming he is going to be okay with being platonic friends when it’s plain as day he wants more is disrespectful, cowardly and selfish.

While I can understand that women are nervous that men won’t take rejection well in reality most guys can take in in stride. If they do get angry or rude than take that as confirmation you made the right choice.

No the truth is most women don’t want to lose out on the benefits of having the interested guy in their orbit (attention, favors, ego boost, someone to use against you really like, etc.). They also know that interested guy will likely do more for them vs someone who isn’t. This is especially true of if they see the guy is “nice” which women either consciously or subconsciously find feminine. Most of them have no idea how deeply insulting that attitude to vast majority of hetero men.

Anyway I haven’t been “friéndzoned” in a very long time but I’ve had women attempt that crap (including grown ass women in their 30s). The attempt itself is infuriating tbh (a woman past 30 should know better. I feel there should come a point in a woman’s life where she should understand male psychology better.

I feel like I’m in love because I’ve never felt this way about anyone before and I have done some pretty special things for her that I’ve never done before for anyone. Not even when I was in a relationship with my first girlfriend three years ago. I’ve tried moving on multiple times, but she would still be on my mind. I have many reasons why I like my crush.

To me, that two reasons that stick out to me is that she’s caring and that she brings out the best in me whenever I’m around her and talking to her. I see her every week. I’ve tried moving to other girls on dating apps and in person, but I don’t see them the same way. The person I like means a lot to me. Whenever she’s sick and tells me that she’s not doing well, I show my concern and let her know that I hope she gets better, and that I’ll be praying.

Lately, I’ve been concerned about her getting the coronavirus because she doesn’t really wear a mask. She told me that I don’t need to be worried because she’s not afraid of the virus. I’m still concerned and ask her how she’s feeling sometimes. It doesn’t matter what she says because I’ll still care and be concerned. I see her every week and I always take the initiative to help her out in away that I can. She appreciates my help.

She's only 19 years old and has never been in a relationship before, and has never gotten this much attention from a guy before from what she told me. My crush isn’t interested in me, but I feel things can possibly change because she’s still young and is still trying to discover yourself and see what she wants in a guy. I could be wrong. I care about her and would like to be there. More than just a friend though.

Feeling this way about her is new to me. I’m curious, if I’m in love and curious to know, if girls like guys that they didn’t for before? Just wondering, if a girls feelings can change.

I like my crush that I tried moving on from multiple times. I have my reasons for liking her. She brings out the best in me, which is good and important to me. She makes everything better, when I’m around her. I’m not sure, if I’m in love or just like her. I truly care about her and have shown her that I do. A lot of the time, I’m concerned about her getting the coronavirus because she doesn’t really wear a mask. She’s tells me that I shouldn’t worry because she’s not afraid of the virus. That’s her view and I respect that, but that doesn’t mean I’ll stop caring. I can tell all this is first and it’s a first for me too because I’ve never had deep feelings for anyone before or even cared for someone this much before. There’s been a few times, when she wasn’t feeling good and I showed my concern for her. I would always ask, if she’s alright. Overall, if she not doing well I’m concerned, even when she’s having a bad day I try and cheer her up. I’m not sure, if girls care about something like this. Had to ask though. She isn’t interested in me at the moment, but she’s only 19 years old and has never been in a relationship before, and has never gotten this much attention from guy from what she told me. She still trying to discover herself and see what she wants in a guy.