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Ok so my bf and I are going through a tough time. August 19 would be a 4 year anniversary however our relationship status is complicated! The only really problems in our relationship is that he says we argue too much and I say that we have enough quality time together bc we have a 2 year old son. We've tried a break which didn't work because of me. Now he says he needs time to think and for now we are broken up but we still live together, which to me makes no sense. The things he does more for me now that we are broken up and he texts me faster than he normally would. I know that he isn't cheating on me. My dilemma is after the break things got worse. This is most we ever fought in the 6 years that I've known him.

I've made my last cry for reconcile but he says he needs to think about because he doesn't know if the arguing will end if we officially get back together. How many of you guys believe in second chances? Neither one of us cheated! We are just having a rough patch as all couples to do! I need advice and I know it's a lot to read. HELP!!!

Met him while working with friends for an event... actually it was his friend that step to me... not being in the mood to be practice for a player... I shut him down. Well he step in saying that no way to talk to people and began to try and smooth talk his way in... I wasn't haven't it. But somehow caught me off guard by suggesting that couldn't remember his number if he gave it to me because he know I wasn't going to give him mine. He turned it into a game rather than a pursuit. I fell for it ( smh) Damn!!2 weeks later at home nothing to do... I remembered the number.. thought I'd call see where his head was at... and if it wasn't nowhere nice... No love lost... keep it moving Well he was pleasant and convo surprisingly refreshing yet still reluctant wondering when the other shoe would drop.
Through the following weeks he texted cute little good morning quote every morning and after a month past I worked another event that he attended. this was a second chance to get a better look at him and decide to ask him if he would like to hang out once I finished working... He agreed. I he was a perfect gentleman... opening doors pulling out chairs and paying for meals... I was impressed but not to much... weeks followed and we would meet again this time he claim he was going shopping for himself and wanted me to come along... thinking this might be fun.. I join him.. just discover he was taking me on a shopping spree. again I was taken off guard and honestly thus has never happen to me... So I'm suspicious ( stupid. Maybe) what does he want from me? Is he trying to buy me? I was uncomfortable.. not to make him feel bad I pick out one item though he insisted I get more but I wasn't comfortable. We started dating and it was fun but then he started giving me an allowance no less then 200 a week he said it was for myself to whatever I wanted and if needed anything don't hesitate to ask. I had to ask him why just meeting me he's So giving? He said he was protecting his investm