Search Results: good qualities in a girlfriend

Are good guys the "apples at the top of the tree?"

I've heard this analogy that some of the most quality people to date and get to know, are often ignored and have a hard time getting dates because "people are too afraid to pick the highest apples for fear of 'falling'...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Do looks matter? And why? Or is it something else?

I am not exactly the prettiest girl. But I am a good person, honest, compassionate... I have been told many times by guys I have desirable qualities that they themselves would like to have in a girlfriend. But when it...

Liros

Xper 5 Age: 35

Passing Women's Tests Continued (3)

3. I have a boyfriend test. Many people have heard this one, things are going great with a woman so you decide to make that first real move, maybe ask her out for a coffee and she might even say yes, but wait, "just...

Gregs

Yoda Age: 46

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Family & Friends

What qualities make a good girlfriend?

I have been wondering for a while what is it that makes a guy decide he wants to date a girl and if those qualities even matter for every girl. Currently I just have a "guy friend" with whom I sleep with. Nothing more....

luciana2

Xper 5 Age: 34

Relationships

If you found Mr. Right at a younger age, would you not date him until you were ready to settle down?

Directed to the girls obviously... if you found "the one" while you were young and just living a carefree life, wanting to have fun and party, would you put him on the back burner while you dated bad boys and party type...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why can't I trust my girlfriend? Please help.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months. Allow me to preface this by saying that I am 27 years old and have had 3 serious relationships in the past 10 years, 2 of which I was cheated on. I was also...

MrHopeless

Xper 4 Age: 43

Never been hit on?

I've asked a similar question in the past about never having a girlfriend, and people say I shouldn't get upset about it and that she will come one day. I can agree with that now, but I think the problem is that I've...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do girls expect a lot more from us guys than we expect from girls? why do they have higher standards?

Is it in a girl's genes to have higher standards? It's like the list of positive qualities that girls look for in a guy is a lot longer than the list of positive qualities than guys look for in a girl. It's like girls...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Please cure my self-destructive behavior?

It seems like I have a hard time having standards. To tell you the truth, I am new to the dating game. I know there are plenty of woman out there. And yet, if a girl gives me a date, no matter if I felt like there was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Jaded Men Who Hate Women

I've been noticing a trend on this site (and life) lately and it mostly has to do with people asking questions about and directing issues towards the way that women are treated in the mating game. Over the period of...

Epiphanies

Xper 6 Age: 37

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Is it harder for a girl to attract a guy and get a boyfriend? or harder for a guy to be attractive and get a a girlfriend?

Do you think it is harder for a guy to be appealing, attractive, boyfriend material to a girl? or is it harder for a girl to be appealing, attractive, girlfriend material to a guy? Overall, do you think it's harder for a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think it is harder for a guy to be appealing, attractive, boyfriend material to a girl? or is it harder for a girl to be appealing, attractive, girlfriend material to a guy?

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Dating

Can lack of experience leave you SOL?

So I'm 23, kind of a reserved and introverted guy, never had a girlfriend / kissed a girl blah blah blah. I'm not complaining about it. I'm not feeling desperate about it or using it as a reason to beat myself up inside....

sa230e

Guru Age: 39

The Chase Theory and the Psychology of the Shy Guy

Do guys like chasing girls or do they like the girl to make the first move? I've seen a few variations on this one and I've developed a theory about it that perhaps some people may find useful or (I hope) at least thought...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Should I express my feelings to him?

A month ago, I started a new job and became close friends with someone I work with. He is an amazing guy. We became great friends right off the bat. We talk a lot at work, and we both are flirty towards eachother. A...

Anonymous

(36-45)

So... What's up with the "good-looking/great guy/good guy friend that's never had a girlfriend" type of guy?

You hear girls talking about their good guy friends mostly... kinda being in this category I've gotten this more than once... "Oh you're a great guy! don't ever change!" "Oh you're the best." "Oh you're such a good guy!"...

drummerdude25

Master Age: 35

My girlfriend puts me last?

I feel like this is a stupid question to ask since we are both in our 30's and are way too old for these stupid games but I'll ask anyway. We have been together for about a year and a half and during this time our only...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

How to ask out a female friend?

So I've had this cute friend for about a year now. We hang out in the same circle and had some good ass time, but I wouldn't say we ever got close. I never really thought of her as girlfriend material until about the...

MetIncome

Xper 5 Age: 44