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So let me start by saying that this girl has professionally diagnosed mental disorders. Professionals realize that there is something not well with this woman.

About a year ago, she reached out to me after not talking for 2 years. We were in other countries by that point, but she had decided that she wanted me to be a part of her future (her words).

Over the course of this last year, she did very little to communicate with me, while I messaged her a great deal. I was told by many women (including some who had the condition she was diagnosed with), that I should stick with her, because she definitely liked me, and eventually the problems would sort themselves out.

Well after a few months of her trying to change and not succeeding; she had gotten this idea in her head that I was trying to control her, because I wanted to help give her some motivation to break the cycle she appeared to be in. She had started to not trust me, and randomly decided to just stop communicating with me. She would still respond well to my romantic messages and flirtations, but she flat out refused to tell me about anything going on in her life.

Well lo' and behold, it turned out that she hiding the fact that she'd gotten into a grad school (with the personal statement I'd written for her, because her English isn't great, and her nerves were a mess), because she didn't feel that she "owed me every detail about her life." She was about to move back to my country within the week, and didn't want to tell me. The only reason I know is because I did some detective work.

She decided to send my messages and emails to some mutual friends, and tell them that I'm super creepy. I was scaring her, trying to exploit her mental health and ignoring her signals. We then blocked each other on absolutely everything. Her little stunt has cost me business relationships, soiled my reputation, and been a massive aggravation.

The mental health problems are part of what concerns me that she might reach out.