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Should I greet my ex boyfriend a happy birthday?

my boyfriend and i is taking a break from our relationship a week ago. lack of time issues. Long story short, he got a new job with hectic schedules and i become clingy. he said im stressing him out, so i decided to give...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

She said that she's emotionally unavailable?

So this girl I like broke up with her boyfriend about a month or so ago. We've been taking and even went out a few times. All of a sudden she said to me that she wants to be honest with me because she doesn't want me to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Five Things To Do Immediately After a Break-up

1. Get to the Gym Post break-ups can be hard mentally and emotionally. Many people shut down, become removed from their lives, and just become, well, gross with it. Instead, channel your rage, your sorrow, your hate, your...

BeeNee

Editor Age: 43

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Break Up & Divorce

When did you know it was time to break up?

I'm with my first boyfriend, and we have been together for almost 3 years and we live together. We're moving away from eachother because of school, and I'm not sure if a long distance relationship will be worth it. I have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Technology & Internet

Social Media: Dumb, Creepy, and Making Us Think Illogically?

In today's society, it seems as if not having a social media account or not wanting one is the small rarity and don't get this mixed up--social media can be helpful. However, let's step back from the usual technology...

kewlpenguin1

Xper 5 Age: 31

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Relationships

Dear girls can you help me figuring out what went wrong?

1. I had a serious relationship couple of years ago, had a devastating heart break. She left me for another guy. 2. Said to my self never gonna fall for someone unless they feel the same. 2. I met this gal with beautiful...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Complicated long distance relationship... depressed boyfriend help/suggestions?

So warning long story... I was dating this guy in 2011 I joined the military and we broke up. I started dating someone else we ended up marrying but he was also a close friend here and there unless we got into fights then...

tamekapyt

Xper 5 Age: 35

Relationships

Am I being selfish in the relationship?

Anonymous

(30-35)

yesterday night me and my boyfriend were talking over the phone and we were discussing about his job interview next week. He wants a second job because his current job doesn't pay well

yesterday night me and my boyfriend were talking over the phone and we were discussing about his job interview next week. He wants a second job because his current job doesn't pay well and he wants to make enough money so he can move out to his own place. I understand that and if he gets the job, I will be happy for him. But then he mentioned that he doesn't mind taking 4 to 5 shifts a night. And then I got this idea in my head that "he won't have enough time for me" since he's working in the daytime and then would work at night. We see each other every 2 days and we talk everyday so I think Im scared that we won't be as close any more and so I took it out on him. And then he got extremely furious at the end. This was our conversation:
HIM: why are u thinking like this? I will make time for u. if a guy really likes someone he will make time so i will make time. i know myself
ME: i dont think u will. i just have a feeling. my friend and her boyfriend are on and off because of this
HIM: dont compare our relationship. we are all different. you are thinking about urself. u just want all the attention and its not fair. i need to think of my career first.
ME: ok... i think we need space for a week. we been talking everyday
HIM: *getting furious* WHAT THE F? why a week? are u interested in someone else? i thought we are seeing each other on Monday. i have a feeling u dnt want to be with me. if u dont just tell me and im out of your life. dont play games with me. im pissed. i will call later. bye.
Then he hanged up and then called me again
HIM: what do u want from me? do u want to break up?
ME: i dont know what i want.
HIM: *still furious but i can tell he was going to cry* why do u do this to me all the time? i dont know what u want. if u dont see me on Monday i will take it that ur not interested anymore and thats it. i will leave.
ME: yea i dont know..
HIM: look just see me on Monday. i will call u Sunday night. i will give u space tomoro. goodnight.
ME: ok ill see u on Monday. goodnite

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Both have feelings but neither of us are ready?

A month ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 1 year (first ever bf) for various reasons. One reason being that I had developed some feelings for somebody else (this wasn't the main reason for the breakup). The other person...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Taking a break? Long text... Please read! Any advice?

Me and my girlfriend of 3 months decided to take a break. Here's a short story of how it came to this point. She was in a 4 year relationship with her ex boyfriend about a year go, we met 6 months ago and have been...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Should I break up with my alcoholic boyfriend?

When we first met, there were no signs of a problem at all. He was just this super sweet person who I loved being around. He was actually married to someone else when we met, so we had to keep things PG at first. When...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I told my boyfriend that I slept with another guy whilst we were on a break but he still forgave me. Why?

Things were going downhill for a while. He was always busy working on the house, and always hanging out with his friends: basically he wasn't making time for me and was taking me for granted. I had raised this with him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How to Spot a Bold and Strong Woman

Why this take and topic? I am 28 year old woman who got back to the dating scene after a long time about 3 years. I have dated people whom I met through friends and social circle, as well I used online dating apps to meet...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Break Up & Divorce

Why does my ex-girlfriend keep contacting me?

I dated my ex for over a year and I thought the relationship was great but she left me. Before the break up I had no problems with her but after the break up she started to treat me like garbage. Still I took space and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

"Why Can't I Find a Boyfriend/Girlfriend?"

"Why can't I find a girlfriend/boyfriend?" I've seen this question asked multiple times and to be totally honest with you all, I used to be annoyed when I see questions like that because I used to perceive them as if...

Cccgala

Editor Age: 26

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Break Up & Divorce

Reminiscing lately... what's the deal?

It's been quite a while since my last relationship. To make the story short we're both in our 30s and he didn't take the relationship as serious as i did. Being the musician that he is, he was flirting with every chick...

Anonymous

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Relationships

Relationship issues?

I've been with my boyfriend around eight months. In the beginning everything was fine and my insecurities didn't appear but the further along we get in this i feel myself constantly questioning him more so lately than...

Lizzy_jaye

Xper 2 Age: 36

Guy's Behavior

Why is he still with me?

so I had a boyfriend for 3 years but then we coudnt get married due to family issues so I broke up with him. then I got married to another person but it didn't work out and I got divorce. after a one yr of that divorce I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Boyfriend is suffering from anxiety/depression and its affecting our relationship. What should I do?

I've been with my boyfriends for 6 month now. The first 3 months of so were great and everything was perfect and the relationship seemed very positive - we fell in love very quickly and he made it clear that he wanted to...

sille19

Xper 5 Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

What just happened?

So recently my boyfriend of four months broke up with me. He had different excuses but I kept leading back to one. First, he said he doesn't want anything serious, but like one day before he was planning on taking me to...

toofunnyjazz

Xper 4 Age: 31