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The ghosting I'm referring to, is the type of person who does it after like a first date, without even explaining anything, like they won't even tell you they don't want a second date, they'll just get on with their life as if nothing happened, simply because they can't be bothered replying and saying anything, potentially leaving their date thinking 'WTF happened'.

I'm not referring to those who ghost because some crazy, psycho is stalking them and they're worried about their safety or those who do it to people, who did it to them, as revenge, in those situations, I see it as perfectly reasonable.

Personally, I probably wouldn't, because if you're dating someone or trying to pursue them and they don't even bother to say something like 'I'm not interested anymore' and instead leave you hanging, without caring about how you may feel, then I honestly think it shows that they're uncaring, I mean just flipping say no, you don't know how the person feels, why leave them hanging like that, especially if you've already been on a first date with them.

In case you haven't seen my previous question, where I asked people what they think about the act, here it is:

What do you think of the act of 'ghosting' when it comes to dating?

Some of the answers I received on that question, inspired me to write this one, which I feel is different enough, so I'm not just totally repeating myself for everything, but like I stated in the previous question, I've never ghosted, nor been ghosted, so I'm not speaking from experience. The definition is also in the other question, in case anyone doesn't know what the term 'ghosting' means.

I am 33 years old. I am single, multi racial, and non religious.

There is a girl on facebook who is pretty, 32 years old, and a religious catholic who wants to wait to have sex until marriage.

I have a crush on her.

The thing is that we know each other. About 10 years ago we had mutual friends and would be at the same parties and such. We would talk for a little bit but we weren't "close". I went to a different college but we saw each other at parties due to the same network of friends. Does that make sense. So she isn't a complete stranger. We've met and know each other.

On facebook, I am a rather controversial person. I have a tendency to post random thoughts. These random thoughts are philosophical and political. The girl in question has pressed the like button on 20 to 50 of my posts over the last 2 weeks. some of the post have been political statements.

I am also in a rock band. From time to time I post clips of the band practicing or videos of songs I've written on instagram. She likes video clips of me just singing and playing my guitar. Love songs and such. She once commented that I should record one of the songs I've written.

Lastly, I take pictures of the city. She has started liking pictures of those posts as well.

I used to be able to search her on facebook and see the pictures on her profile. As of yesterday I cannot. She continues to like my posts though. Also, she sometimes comments on philosophical posts I make. When I reply she never responds.

What's going on here? Why doesn't she reply to my responses when she makes them? Why is she restrict what I can see on her profile?

I want to ask her out on a date but not if she thinks I am a creepy guy.