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A couple agreed they would get married in the future, it happened sort of fast (never good) but for religious reasons and sex... one day the guy (Sam) says he never wants to marry) and never have sex... he explained that he had fears and said because the girl would have to choose between love and money as Sam works a very busy and maybe dangerous job but the girl accepts sadly and tells him she will give other men a chance... but not long he goes back to calling her "my love" (his love). Sam got blue-balls when he saw her and asked for help (she was reluctant). She is talking about the relationship and he says maybe he can marry her, but she thinks he is emotional and not honest. COVID/corona starts 19. Sam isn't working but busy. She learns that Sam's father got covid19 he is at hospital. . She meets another man (let's call him John) online who has romantic interest in her (only 1 week of talking), she accepts all the arrows from John because she wants to marry and something serious. Sam has Corona/COVID and says he will die. She is so sad, and they confess the obvious love for each other... he becomes better and video calls her as soon as he reaches home, saying he missed her … she knows Love is not always enough, but wonders his intentions. A few weeks pass and no contact from Sam and during the time forgets about him to focus on the more serious John. Sam has Corona again and was in hospital. First day home he contacts her. She decides she needs to question Sam. If he wants to marry her, she may accept because she loves him. But because of COVID she never had the right time to ask him... So what about John? She doesn't want to make John sad. John says he loves her (but it can't be "true in love".. it is only a week and they are texting. She loves John but not in-love. time is an obstacle.. maybe John will wait. She feels truth is best but thinks John will feel hurt to know she is giving another guy preference over him.

We are in a long distance relationship with someone living in NZ and is from my home country only. It's been a month now. And he asked me what my goals are and I said I'm not sure but want to do mba in my home country and work here where as he is in NZ and is calling me there. He said me I should take loan to pay for fees of NZ masters and come there and stay with him and do masters in NZ and that I shouldn't worry about job thingy. So bdw, I'm an introvert and have less friends and he was like name three friends and I just have one best friend to be honest and he asked me why I don't have friends. I am very reserved and he has problem with me not having friends stating how will I grow despite having a good job and that I won't be able to survive in corporate world. He said me thrice that in home country, you're paid less and abroad you're not and that I should come to NZ. He asked me why i, 23 year old girl not getting promoted and i said that it's p been a year and a half. He is 24 and asked me why no wfh for me and I said the reason that I don't have access to those softwares at home and will resume office after lockdown gets over coz here still everything is shut. He said that he'll leave me if he gets someone like him. I asked him why not leave me right away and he said that he doesn't have anyone rn. He don't have time to find one. He wouldn't leave me because he loves me. Such contradictory statements. He suddenly talked about pre-nup that he'll make me sign before marriage stating I won't get a single penny after divorce that made me wonder why he talked to me like that. He aslo mentioned about the break up part and asked me if I want to break up and I said that if you have problem with me, you should break up and make decision right away. Then he says he doesn't wanna break up. I totally don't understand what to do. Should I break up?