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When we broke up I was very heartbroken because I know it sounds cliche but I had found the person whom I wanted to spend my time with. We connected on ever level and it was amazing. I really did not see the breakup coming. If you want to know why we broke up just ask. I did not want to make this so long. But he was stressed with stuff. Anyway after bu he initiated contact. So far it has been 3 months that we have not been together. We also had sex a few times and each time it seemed like we were still together. I slept over and he grab and held me all night. We talked and joked around etc it felt right still. On other times sometimes his words through texts just seemed like he wanted sex so I don't know but he is not the type to use someone. Anyway asekd him to come hang at my house a few weeks ago he said he had a lot going on and was not sure how he felt about everything. Well now we are in August and I have to see him everyday. I am attending his work. One of my students is there ( summer camp) and I am working with them. Its hard seeing him everyday. The first day after he texted me asking how it went and came over and talked for a minute. the first 2 days he checked in during day then nothing really. I catch him looking at me and we catch eyes with each other. Its just very hard bc im still in love with him. We were doing art the other day and I was laying down I totally know he walked around me and checked out my butt too. I know there is something there still, but he has not contacted me since Monday although I see him everyday. I might try to text him tonight and eventually tell him my feelings still. If nothing happens then at least i tried. Is there a chance again?

Hi guys,

I study in England but I'm home in Germany during summer. Shortly before I left for my summerbreak I spent 2 romantic evenings/nights with one of my classmates (no sex, just kissing and talking a lot.) It felt like we were both falling for eachothers quite hard. He even gave me his necklace when I left.
Unfortunately we haven't been texting a lot because he is not into social media and doesn't even use whatsapp (fairly old fashioned!)
The last time I've heard from him was mid. June. I haven't tried to contact him since then.
I think and dream of him all the time but I am afraid I'd do something wrong if I'd text him. I'm also afraid that he met somebody new and I'll be heartbroken...
But now I've booked my flight back to England (end of August) and I'd love to know if I'll see him again (+ what I can expect when I'm back) so I'm thinking of texting him. Just a short message, like "Hey how are you, just booked my flight back to England."

YES: Ofc you should write him
NO: Wait and see if he contacts you

I would say he's a bit shy (certainly NOT a very experienced guy who thinks he's the best - but still a cute guy with a very good sense for fashion)
I'm just really afraid I'm annoying him / making myself look "boring" if I text him again :/

Thanks a lot xx
Alice