Search Results: letting go of an ex

His words say he loves me, his actions say otherwise. Which is it?

OK to really sum up a 3 year relationship is hard but I will try to provide as much information as possible into a little paragraph. Basically he tells me he loves me all the time with no problem. He looks me in the eyes...

Anonymous

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Words that broke my heart! Does my ex mean what he said?

Hi Me & my ex have been separated since July 09. We were together for 2 yrs, but it was an off and on relationship at times. However, we have always stayed in touch & have still met up on the odd occasion. I told myself...

Anonymous

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Is it possible to get back with an ex who lives states away?

The guy broke up with me... I still love him. It's been 3 months. Is there anything I can do to persuade him to give the relationship another chance? (I've only talked to him once since the break up?) I've been...

Anonymous

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My wife wants to find herself. She says she's fallen out of love, headed for divorce?

Hello, my wife of a year and love of my life for 7 years has decided that she wants a divorce. We have been together since she was 16 and I was 18, her father kicked her out at 19 and felt that I was always her savior...

Anonymous

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Marriage & Weddings

Am I overeacting??

Me and my girl have been together for almost 2 years. I proposed 5 months ago and we are waiting to finish out another year before we get married. When we first started dating she had dependency issues and PTS from her ex...

ottke303

Xper 5 Age: 45

I don't know if he genuinely meant it or not and I'm starting to take a liking to the guy.

Hmm... okay. First post and I should know the answer to this by now. Well here it goes. I've befriended one of my ex's friends and we have been carrying on casual conversation for about a year now. I've never really...

bettienoire

Xper 5 Age: 46

I don't want to lose a friend but at the same time I love him and want him to change his mind.

This is my second question about the same guy. I wrote one before explaining how our relationship started and how close we got emotionally and physically. He asked to take it slow with me, we had a lot of fun together...

sweet272

Xper 5 Age: 45

Why do guys put up a front?

My ex and I were together for almost a year and the whole time we were together he was always a gentleman and never let me pay for anything. He was doing so good getting his life together and when he talked about the...

sthrnsweeti

Xper 7 Age: 39

Does my ex still care about me or not care at all?

I was in a relationship for close to a year. He was my first love. I was his longest relationship. He told me he loved me more than he had ever loved anyone, he loved me with his whole heart, that I meant more to him than...

xsmilex3

Xper 5 Age: 36

Should I be mad at my ex boyfriend who is courting me again?

Should I be mad at him for still hanging out and talking to this ex of his who has been trying to 'wreck' (and has) our relationship? He dumped her and ever since he got with me, she has been always trying to get in the...

Anonymous

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Why do I feel guilty about having fun?

Me and my ex dated almost 5 years, but he left out of the blue almost 7 months ago, but he has been giving me mixed signals but claims to like my friend who doesn't like him back and that he’s completely over me but acts...

DarkChains

Xper 5 Age: 39

Dating

Calling an ex after a month and a half: Phone conversation idea

INTRO: Hey, how are you? I just wanted to see how you were since I haven’t talked to you in a while. I know you moved up a rank, and I was just going to see how you liked it, and I also have something else to tell you,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Would it be wrong to contact an ex, and ask him what went wrong?

It's been a month and a half of no contact - would it be wrong to ask what went wrong in the relationship. My break up was highly emotional. I mean he listed some reasons, but I think he wasn't thinking and we were both...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My Heart Is Broken, How Do I Fall Out Of Love??

Email from a reader So, maybe, my question is, how can I turn off this love? How can I do it, if I loved him, flaws and all? He was sweet and generous with me when we were together and I only have good memories. I...

mikethemasterdater

Xper 6 Age: 53

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Mixed signals..help!

OK so I've liked this guy since he waved at me in the pool all sweet with a huge grin. He's so amazing, he's intelligent and not ashamed of the lord. He is a beast in football ans he loves his family. His ex is obsessed...

fsugirl

Xper 5 Age: 35

Ex wife wants him back, nothing's happened, he's confused but really likes me?

recently I met an amazing guy who's 32, divorce just come through after 18 months ish, relationship dead 2 years before... she went cold on him. she ran him through the mill money wise and he agreed to everything for an...

just4clarity

Xper 5 Age: 39

Dating

How to deal with a taurus man - out of my element

I've been dating a guy for nearly a year and since day one the ball has been in his court. I've *never* had trouble with men - and certainly never had to chase one, or bent over backwards, but this guy has caused me no...

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