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If a kid makes a mess, in accidental form be calm with them but DON'T clean it for them. Simply tell them get some material and clean it up themselves. Teach responsibility this way. Now if it is on purpose, yes of course acts of little discipline are in order. Be firm with initial warning looking them in the eye and telling them if they do that again they will lose this privileged for so long, and NEVER be a hypocrite about it and just let them off easy because you feel bad. That will make them think all they will ever get is a slap on the hand and that's it. Don't let that one time go necessarily either. Sit them in timeout for a good short while totally alone and tell them to think about what they did, then come back after they calm down from the expected tantrum from the consequence and explain why what they did was wrong. Then each time they do it again, progressively make the punishment a little higher. Taking toys away for longer and replacing that with house chores and such. Let good behavior throughout be slightly rewarding. Natural consequences is an effective learning experience also. If they want to touch something hot. Let them. Just because you tell them it's hot doesn't mean they will believe you. Think anyone will just believe me when I say aliens exist? Shoot no. If they see it with their own eyes and experience it personally though, that can convince even the biggest skeptics. Sometimes you have to make things a tad excessive without overdoing it. Avoid yelling and physical lashes as often as possible. I was raised this way and I was pretty stubborn, but it worked on me so it should on others

When it comes to men raising kids that aren't theirs while believing it is in fact their child, some sources say the number of men raising kids that aren't theirs is just around 5%, while other sources say it's around 30%. The real number may never be found, but it's still worrying how many men out there think the kid/s they're raising are theirs, while in fact, the dad is another man.

So would you guys get a paternity test when you have kids to make sure the kid is yours?

Ok so I was talking to this foreign girl
I dont know much about her culture, her 1st language, or religion.
She was talking to me a bit about her religion & how they treat men differently where she's from.

She said in her country they appreciate everything about a man
They appreciate the masculinity, the beauty , his body, all of his body...

She said she/they just love everything about a man & sex with the man is powerful because thats another was he shows his love by having sex with her & raising kids with her..

Men don't ever get that shit here 😂
Like where do I sign up?
I asked her about dating someone Like this, but she said 99% of the time it isn't possible because of race/religion etc.

She also said just because women treat men like this doesn't mean men can treat them like shit, if the man does it could result in very harsh punishment by the wives family.
Thats fine by me I'm not a cheater anyway

Where do I sign up?
Like seriously, women do not treat men like that here, at all.
I've always wanted to date a foreign girl anyways

Do you believe they treat men better?

I notice that majority of women these days have baby daddy drama. No offence single moms! But I choose to keep away from women who have little ones. One time I was banging a woman I found at a bar. The sex was great until I saw she had her sons face tattooed on her back. I immediately got my stuff and left her house. Never called her after that.

Technically if your girlfriend has kids from another man... she's not all yours. She's already started life with another man. Also she's has to associate, interact with him no matter what. As we all know, women get emotional attached very strong to their kids fathers. That emotional attachment never goes away.

Plus I'm not gonna go through the hell of raising another mans child. Children of today have zero respect for their elders. I'm not gonna put myself in a situation where I have to take abuse from a child, and I can't even spank it. I've seen too many men get disrespected by their woman's kids. And there's nothing they can do about it!

I have the no kids rule, plus I myself am undesirable to date. I didn't finish college, and I make $23/hr. So it'll already be hard for me to find a partner in general. I'm just wondering... is it possible to find a decent woman with no 👶 ? Or should I accept being single forever?